Ugh. And I just had to say to my boss (when she was like "but I can't move you to another project because we have no one to replace you on this (insano evil) project") "Well, either you're going to replace me because I'm on a new project or you're going to replace me because I'm going to quit. You pick."
Because I am being driven ENTIRELY INSANE by the RIDICULOUS DEMANDS of this STUPID PROJECT OMG.
My workmate said she has used [link] and [link] in the past. I don't know that much myself, but I would imagine that any of the big name background search places would come up with the same results since they likely all use the same sources.
Also, {{omnis}}, I do not envy you this conversation. But I would expect my sons to share that kind of information no matter how upsetting it would be.
omnis, you've gotten really good advice here. I'm sorry you (and your mom) are in this position--but I'm really glad you have some resources to be able to find out about this person. You have all my wishes that your conversation with your mom goes as well as possible.
Scrappy, that sucks so hard. I'm sorry they're stupid.
Also, didn't one of the convictions specifically mention that the victim was 14 or 15?
The offenses also include "SEX PENETRATION WITH FOREIGN OBJECT OF A DRUGGED VICTIM, which I find hard to explain away. It also says "Registrant has subsequent felony conviction(s)."
The idea of anyone laying Scrappy off is completely insane.
Thank you so much, Laura. I found her! The old information on the report is all correct, so I am hoping that the current address listed for her is correct. Now, all I need to figure out is what to say in a letter to a friend you haven't spoken to in 8 years.
Yay! I hope the address is good.
I hope so too. Of course, there is a very good chance I could send her a letter and never hear back, even if it is good. So, I may never know. On the plus side, she doesn't have a criminal record. It was a remote possibility, but I just really want to know she is doing ok.
I'm sorry, Scrappy. I hope you find a better job with a fabulous organization very soon.
I'm sorry, Scrappy. That truly sucks. (Although I, too, went to a "who fires the firers" place for a sec.)