Never goes smooth. How come it never goes smooth?

Mal ,'Safe'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


smonster - Jan 10, 2013 5:18:59 pm PST #24844 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I vote Timothy!!


lisah - Jan 10, 2013 5:39:49 pm PST #24845 of 30001
Punishingly Intricate

I don't know if Timothy's nickname "Tiny Time" is a typo but I LOVE IT! And he is very majestic and fluffy! A hard combo to pull off.


meara - Jan 10, 2013 6:03:37 pm PST #24846 of 30001

Things that are ironical and shit:

I finally figure out how to look up mental health providers on my insurance's website (it's convoluted, and totally different from all other kinds of providers). I tell it to find me someone within a few miles, who does cognitive behavior therapy. Cause that sounds...practical and useful and shit. Three names....one of whom is an ex (for whom I have zero respect as a person and wouldn't take advice from if I was drowning and he was telling me where to find a lifevest).


Dana - Jan 10, 2013 6:07:13 pm PST #24847 of 30001
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Three names....one of whom is an ex

Oh, that is just not nice.


sj - Jan 10, 2013 6:17:38 pm PST #24848 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Ouch, meara. I hope one of the other two work out for you.


smonster - Jan 10, 2013 6:52:58 pm PST #24849 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

meara, shoot me an email with questions about Al Anon, if you like. Also, cannot recommend DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Theray) highly enough, just to give you something to give you a few more names, maybe.

Also, yikes.


Burrell - Jan 10, 2013 8:06:45 pm PST #24850 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Yes, ironical AND shit. Oy!


SailAweigh - Jan 11, 2013 6:31:00 am PST #24851 of 30001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

Massive hugs to all the hurty people here. I have so much love and respect for all of you. Especially the way we all have each others' backs. I feel like we have the largest polyamorous (without sex, except for those of you who actually are couples) relationship in the world. Like that huge fungus under half the midwest that is all one organism. May you all have better days to come!


smonster - Jan 11, 2013 6:57:23 am PST #24852 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Does Gris post here or Natter? I can never remember who's where. Anyway, Gris, that is absolutely awful and I'm so sorry. Wishing you strength and love for when the grief breaks through.

Sail, lots of ~ma to your coworker.

I'm so proud to be part of this fungal organism, I can't even tell ya.

On a mememe note, this panic attack can ease any time now. C'mon, Tara Brach, work your soothing Buddhist magic!! I was an hour late to work this morning after another crappy night's sleep, and am trying to relax out of the spiral of self-loathing.


Amy - Jan 11, 2013 7:11:54 am PST #24853 of 30001
Because books.

Like that huge fungus under half the midwest that is all one organism.

I am so afraid to ask.