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Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


askye - Jan 02, 2013 1:33:44 pm PST #24549 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

Sean, I'm sorry about your cat, but glad there was some good news.

Ginger I hope they can rescue the dog.

I was going to go to knitting tonight even though it's extremely cold (-1, feels like -11) because cold wasn't going to stop me! But my car did. It wouldn't start, it's the battery and last time I had the car in they checked the battery and did a read out that said it probably wouldn't start in cold temperatures.


Aims - Jan 02, 2013 1:41:28 pm PST #24550 of 30001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

It is guys night and I am debating between going to see Les Mis by myself or just going downstairs and crafting. I've been feeling emotionally off the past couple of days and I wonder if a good sobbing will help me purge some of the emotions that have building up.

Mind, I've processed them and know where they are coming from and have talked about them with the proper party, but I still feel kind of built up.

Does any of that make sense?


Steph L. - Jan 02, 2013 1:42:49 pm PST #24551 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Aims, processing is intellectual (and can be some emotional, but to me it's largely intellectual/mental), so you can still need a good emotional catharsis. No question.


Aims - Jan 02, 2013 1:44:57 pm PST #24552 of 30001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Then the good sobfest it is. Plus, it's $5 night at the local theater, so I've got frugality on my side, as well.

Also? Mental illness (though I realize MI does NOT have the patent on emotionally purging) sucks a lot of the time. Even with the right meds. Sometimes, I hate my brain.


sj - Jan 02, 2013 1:53:26 pm PST #24553 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Aims, seeing Les Miz after Christmas was wonderfully cathartic to me, so it sounds like a good plan.


sj - Jan 02, 2013 2:06:02 pm PST #24554 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

This is a gorgeous slideshow of London Underground posters.


Volans - Jan 02, 2013 2:20:21 pm PST #24555 of 30001
move out and draw fire

Happy New Year, Bitches.

I'm getting ready to post Mal's video blog about the NYE fireworks here. It's amazingly free of negative opinion, since he announced today that he's done with living here.


smonster - Jan 02, 2013 5:35:20 pm PST #24556 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Ooo, I'm seeing Les Miz on Friday. Must remember to bring a hankie.

Ginger, sounds like you made the best choice in a bad situation.

Bit of a quandry here - D got me a supernice portable speaker for me to take to work, and I'm worried it's too nice - stuff on site tends to get knocked around. Also, I'd have to take my iPhone out of its case to use the dock (though it does have an auxiliary jack in back). I just took it out of the package and it's damaged, the covering over a speaker is cracked. So, it needs to be returned anyway; should I take the opportunity to explain that this isn't exactly what I need or just say "thank you, sweetie, it's awesome?"

In his place, for a tech thing like this, I'd want him to tell me that it wasn't right. But I'm not him. IDK.


Cass - Jan 02, 2013 7:07:55 pm PST #24557 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

should I take the opportunity to explain that this isn't exactly what I need

Yes. It's honest and that is both good in a relationship and will get you a portable speaker that you can actually USE at work without worrying it will be damaged or stolen. And you can frame it as that - what he got you was really nice but you worry about it being damaged or stolen at the job site.

Granted, some people take it personally if a gift doesn't work perfectly but, in this case especially, it's not always about the gift or giftee.


Zenkitty - Jan 02, 2013 10:07:23 pm PST #24558 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Cat woke me up at 2am. Can't get back to sleep. Dammit.