I am going to gently suggest he come up with a list of questions for when he sees his doctor on the 27th - on his previous visits he pretty much hasn't asked any.
Good luck. It is really hard. One thing that has worked for me in the past, is frame it in terms of me. "I'm really worried and when you do X it stresses me out A LOT." No ultimatums, but just state that X behavior results in Y reaction by someone who loves him, and cares about his well being.
It may not work, but it's honest and sets up an expectation of your own reaction to his actions, which DO affect you.
Yeah, his response is "I'm not worried, damage was to bone, not ligaments." So... s'alright.
amyth! I can't wait to seeeeee youuuuu. Are you with C & J? Say hi for me.
Well, he may not be worried, but you are.
Connie, I thought you might want to be a founding member.
Hubby's response: "You know you'll have all but about 50 women with men, right?"
Are you with C & J? Say hi for me.
I will be in about an hour, and I will! Can't wait to see you, either!
Merry Christmas to those who celebrate it! DW got me a gift that made me ugly cry - a commission of us with Shane by the artist who did one of just us and our cats many years ago. Total surprise and I totally had to run out of the room I was losing it so hard. Perfect gift + pregnancy hormones = bawling Mama.
That's really sweet Glam!
Aw Glam, That sounds wonderful. She's a keeper!
Breakfast is done. I cooked a pound of bacon and 8 eggs. Scrambled, with cheese and chopped up left over ham. Cleaned it all up. 3 stuffed bellies. Enlisted the guests to scrape the carrots and potatoes. Got them chopped up for the bed, and the brisket on top. Added a Granny Smith apple, to see how it flavors the meat. And the slow cooker is going. I expect in about 5 hours, dinner will be ready.
Merry Christmas to everyone that celebrates it.
