Every nightmare I have that doesn't revolve around academic failure or public nudity is about that thing. In fact, once I dreamt that it attacked me while I was late for a test and naked.

Willow ,'The Killer In Me'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Burrell - Dec 18, 2012 1:59:03 pm PST #24092 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Oh right, baking! That helps. And my BiL and his GF are coming over either tonight or tomorrow for a gift exchange. That'll be fun.


Nora Deirdre - Dec 18, 2012 3:02:23 pm PST #24093 of 30001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

where did you end up taking your car, smonster? Glad the estimate is reasonable.

I just realized this afternoon that I hadn't rented a car for my trip to New England next week. That's so unlike me! Found a decent Hotwire rate though, thank god.


smonster - Dec 18, 2012 3:10:17 pm PST #24094 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Sounds fun, Jilli. And I'm glad your dad has found someone to spend time with.

I, too, am having a hard time getting into the holiday spirit. I'm invited to a Cookies and Cocktails party tonight, and it's going to be hard to change clothes and drag my ass back out of the house. I only know the people throwing the party, pretty much.

Money stuff is mostly what's got me down. I'm going to whitefont the rest because I feel self-conscious and want to give people the option to scroll by without even skimming.

It's frustrating that despite all the stuff I do and all the help I have, I still have no leeway whatsoever. I hate feeling this pinched, I hate feeling like I can't be generous or even participate unless someone treats me, and I struggle to budget when I'm already in the hole. How do I set aside money to have a drink or dinner with friends while home when I don't have any?

And I hate feeling like these are all money management lessons I "should" have learned a decade or so ago.

Sorry, the stress has been building up again, and I needed to vent.


smonster - Dec 18, 2012 3:10:33 pm PST #24095 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Nora, Park Place.


Burrell - Dec 18, 2012 3:40:14 pm PST #24096 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Ugh smonster, it's an ugly feeling, and it's not your fault.


meara - Dec 18, 2012 4:03:19 pm PST #24097 of 30001

That's cause it sucks, Smonster. No one wants to feel like that, of course it makes you feel shitty. I hope things turn around for you soon. :(


smonster - Dec 18, 2012 7:15:56 pm PST #24098 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Thanks, y'all. I did go, and it was fun. And I stayed too late, but my coworker threw the party and it's just us on the job site to care if we're a little late and/or hungover tomorrow.


Frankenbuddha - Dec 19, 2012 4:34:09 am PST #24099 of 30001
"We are the Goon Squad and we're coming to town...Beep! Beep!" - David Bowie, "Fashion"

Holy crap! I just found out what my bonus is this year and it's more than my bi-weekly pay. Which means even after the somewhat larger tax bite, it's basically going to pay for what I just dropped on the car. Woot!


SuziQ - Dec 19, 2012 4:38:45 am PST #24100 of 30001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Merry Christmas Frank! So nice when things like that happen.

I remember when we used to get year end bonuses.


Connie Neil - Dec 19, 2012 5:37:59 am PST #24101 of 30001
brillig

I got a $50 gift card to Home Depot, which doesn't suck. It's better than last year's $25 car wash gift card. I don't think I've ever worked anywhere that did actual cash Christmas bonuses. My bosses always say cash just isn't festive enough. Oddly, the employees always seem to disagree.