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Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


beekaytee - Nov 23, 2012 6:42:59 am PST #23138 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

So, the wedding I am officiating tomorrow (on a boat) features a Fall color scheme (natch), but I am wearing all black...as is my custom.

I think it is important for me to fade into the background of the photos, but I do like to make a nod to the overall festivities.

Do the nail polishers among us have a recommendation for a copper colored polish that doesn't require many coats?

I used to LOVE the Sally Hansen 'chrome' series, for just this reason, but they seem to have been discontinued ages ago.


le nubian - Nov 23, 2012 6:45:05 am PST #23139 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

I think something snapped in me after seeing people get trampled in Walmart a few years back. I don't think I have left the house to go shopping on BF since.


beekaytee - Nov 23, 2012 6:54:04 am PST #23140 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

Follow up to my nail polish question...is $16 a reasonable fee for a manicure and how much would one tip?

I haven't had my nails done since the early 80s, so I am waaaay out of the know on this sort of thing.

To be honest, my nails are not worth manicuring as a rule. Paper thin and peely. But, since it is a special occasion and I'm unlikely to use any bottle of polish I buy, I figure it makes more sense to get them done.


beekaytee - Nov 23, 2012 6:56:37 am PST #23141 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

I think something snapped in me after seeing people get trampled in Walmart a few years back. I don't think I have left the house to go shopping on BF since.

This would do it for me.

I think my, never-again moment was seeing people go completely out of their heads for the Tickle Me Elmo doll...whenever that was.

I suppose it is true that we can be grateful for the luxury of going crazy and being evil to others, but I can't really endorse that freedom.


§ ita § - Nov 23, 2012 7:23:38 am PST #23142 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I suppose it is true that we can be grateful for the luxury of going crazy and being evil to others, but I can't really endorse that freedom

Call it a privilege instead, maybe. The luxury of going nuts over a doll speaks volumes.


brenda m - Nov 23, 2012 7:29:14 am PST #23143 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Follow up to my nail polish question...is $16 a reasonable fee for a manicure and how much would one tip?

Yes, and I would probably leave a flat $20,


brenda m - Nov 23, 2012 7:31:33 am PST #23144 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

an 'it's racist, but hey, it's about a sporting event, so I get a pass'

I'm confused. What's racist? What sporting event? And why the pass?


omnis_audis - Nov 23, 2012 7:32:04 am PST #23145 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

I hate going shopping all the time so not doing so on Black Friday is the natural extension of that.

this is me too.


smonster - Nov 23, 2012 7:32:42 am PST #23146 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

bonny, $16 is very very reasonable. Not sure on tipping. 20% is usually safe?

Call it a privilege instead, maybe. The luxury of going nuts over a doll speaks volumes.

It does. And there's so much behind it - the economics of big box stores, the factory conditions where all of the stuff was made, the stagnation of american salaries over the decades... I don't personally get the thrill of the Black Friday chase. I try to stay out big box stores all year long, so there's no way that I'm lining up for BF madness. And there's no way I'm giving up Thanksgiving to start waiting in line on Tuesday to get a plasma screen tv for 1/2 off (even if I could afford it, which I can't). So my feelings about it are part temperamental, part personal/political.


beekaytee - Nov 23, 2012 8:09:37 am PST #23147 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

Excellent! Thanks for the confirmation about the mani price. I will go forth with confidence.

an 'it's racist, but hey, it's about a sporting event, so I get a pass'

I'm confused. What's racist? What sporting event? And why the pass?

This particular friend is a fan of the local, professional football team, unfortunately named after native Americans. They played a team from, I think, Texas yesterday. There were repeated (printed) shrieks of "Scalp them! Scalp them!"

It's the sort of thing I could never imagine this person saying in front of an actual human being, but because it's just a game...or whatever...it's okay.

I'll spare you my rant about how people seem to be blind and deaf to their impact on their personal environments. (cellphones while walking the dog/baby are at the top of my 'list.')

But this, otherwise, thoughtful person's outbursts really set me back on my heels.