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'Dirty Girls'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

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omnis_audis - Nov 21, 2012 6:13:17 am PST #23076 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

A bus just exploded in Tel Aviv. I'm OK.
Thank you for checking in. Just woke up and heard the news.

Much surgery~ma for D! If he can, I highly recommend the forearm crutches instead of the regular wooden ones. Much easier to get around on.


§ ita § - Nov 21, 2012 6:49:33 am PST #23077 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Regular wooden crutches need to be burnt. I'm curious to see what's the design for a general Platonic crutch. Obviously there are different requirements for different reasons needing crutches, but I've never met anyone on wooden crutches for whom they were the best call. But they were cheap, and at the pharmacy, and let's just do this for the short term.


Calli - Nov 21, 2012 8:33:00 am PST #23078 of 30001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Surgery~ma for D, smonster.

My office is closing at 3 today. I'm working from home, but I expect my sofa office will close along with them.


Shir - Nov 21, 2012 8:44:54 am PST #23079 of 30001
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Edit: I almost forgot, smonster, surgery~ma for D!

And, leftovers:

Someone in Gaza in the most favorable possible situation is worse off than someone in Israel in the worst.

I honestly doubt it. I doubt it that the most favorable possible situation in Gaza is better than being poor and disabled and without family/support in the areas that are near Gaza that got hit few times per week for the last several years. I doubt it that the most favorable possible situation in Gaza is better than being a transgender who belongs to a minority group in prostitution in south Tel Aviv (there are at least ~150 I know of). But most of all, I doubt it that the Oppression Olympics will get us anywhere. Yes, most of Gaza Strip folks suffer more than Israelis. Yes, a lot of it is Israel's responsibility. But turning it into black and white reality is exactly what's not gonna work here. That's the same mechanism that's working so well in turning Israel's inner groups against each other, in which you only see the person's social group, and not the person himself/herself. (if you think that we were oh so united in mutual hate to Gazans, you can't be more wrong. People were happily willing to see other Israelis who disagree with them die, just because they disagree with them).


Pix - Nov 21, 2012 8:50:43 am PST #23080 of 30001
The status is NOT quo.

Surgery -ma for D! Coping and peace-ma for Shir and everyone in the Middle East.


Steph L. - Nov 21, 2012 8:51:57 am PST #23081 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I doubt it that the Oppression Olympics will get us anywhere.

I think this is definitely true.


smonster - Nov 21, 2012 8:51:59 am PST #23082 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Damn, Shir. Glad you're safe, grieving for those who aren't.

On phone at lunch, so can't really meara well.

Dana, thanks for sharing.

omnis, that would have been smart, but he has a "dumb phone" and I wasn't with him.

The ~ma is working so far! He was out of surgery and lucid enough to text me just after 10 am, and is now home in bed. I may suggest forearm crutches if he has much longer to go on them.

Sounds like fun, sj.


smonster - Nov 21, 2012 8:53:22 am PST #23083 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Xpost - thanks for elucidating, Shir.


omnis_audis - Nov 21, 2012 10:04:29 am PST #23084 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

I do need to brush up on my Middle East history. I hate not knowing more about the roots of the conflict, just the thumb scratch version of it, which clearly isn't enough. But that might be the academic in me.

ION- the thing that was pissing me off yesterday is doing much better today. We had our weekly dept area meeting. And, for once, faculty didn't throw me under the bus and back up again. Woot for progress. What it boils down to is, too many cooks in the kitchen. As the head of the program pointed out, we all have ideas that are good, but we don't always see the short comings of the ideas. And to implement an idea without approval just because you think it's a good idea doesn't justify you doing it.


sj - Nov 21, 2012 2:24:22 pm PST #23085 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I do need to brush up on my Middle East history. I hate not knowing more about the roots of the conflict, just the thumb scratch version of it, which clearly isn't enough. But that might be the academic in me.

I feel the same way.

Omnis, I'm glad you're having a better day today.

We're at Mom's and have made the butternut squash soup and the brownies. The only other thing we're in charge of is the butter sage sauce for the pumpkin ravioli, which will be made right before it is served. My mother is running around frazzled as usual, but she doesn't want any help.