Why does my mother insist on fucking everything up? She wants to do some sort of event before I leave, which I know is going to end up being a pain in my ass. I have one fucking week before I leave, and shit has been planned. I say let's do something Thursday, she says okay. Then I call to confirm and suddenly she has shit to do. I come up with a new plan. So then today, she tells me that she wants to schedule two other things,including on day that I told her that I didnt want to do anything, because it's the last day before i leave and I don't want any commitments so that I can handle my business.
why? why? Why can she just not do what we agree on?
why? why? Why can she just not do what we agree on?
But that would be inconsistent with both her character and your relationship with her.
Just say no, Vortex! And them you'll be gone gone gone!!
why? why? Why can she just not do what we agree on?
But that would be inconsistent with both her character and your relationship with her.
I need to post this somewhere because I have asked myself this question a milion times this week wrt my almost former husband. But Hec is exactly right. Lucky me, I guess, because I can divorce him, but yes, he can so drive me crazy.
I think she might be nuts, Vortex.
But I am not a doctor. And you may have thought that already.
JZ, thanks for the compliment. Yes, libraries are awesome.
I just didn't mention it because I forget to go to mine.
thanks for correcting my oversight.
Oh, jeez, Vortex. I hope the distance is helpful to you.
Update: I am feeling much calmer already. megan sent me a worksheet and a lovely email, and it's made all the difference. I went to the grocery store and bought only what I had on my list, and came in under budget. I'm going to start doing the envelope system. I can do this and get out of this hole. I'm going to Coinstar and turn in my coins for a little cash to help me get to my next paycheck.
Yay, smonster! Also, I just have to say how much I love that buffistas are often so helpful to each other. This really is a wonderful community.
Bitches is too quiet today. You're forcing me to do productive things.
