Nah, Maria's made the healthiest possible decision for herself. It's hard for us, because we want everything to be right for our friend, but she's doing the right thing for herself. She's made a calculated decision, and it's a good one, if difficult. It hurts to lose the stuff, but in the end, it's just the stuff. So Maria's intent to live her life now as cleanly as possible is a really good one.
'Shindig'
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Nah, Maria's made the healthiest possible decision for herself. It's hard for us, because we want everything to be right for our friend, but she's doing the right thing for herself.
Liese speaks the truth here, as she so often does. Letting go is good.
Liese is smart. But we knew that.
Lies is smart. And, you know, emotionally mature ...
::grumblegrumble::
Oh Maria. I'm so sorry. Liese is indeed wise, and for what it's worth, you have another door open here in Pasadena for an escape (so long as you don't mind the dog and four cats that come with it).
And sj, I hope you get good news soon. You know I can empathize.
Thanks, Pix. I hope I am not poking at anyone's wounds when I post. If I am, please stay something, and I'll stop.
Oh no! Please, this is Bitches. We are here to support one another, and I'm here for you just like you were (and doubtless will be again) here for me.
Thanks, Pix. I appreciate the support.
Oh no! Please, this is Bitches. We are here to support one another
Pix speaks (writes) the Truth.
As evidence that everybody does not always have to mourn, here is a short story based on tales my late father told me about his relationship with his mother. Subject to errors in my memory and name changes, this is a true story. I don't know if it will make you feel any better. It is quite grimly funny and your outlaws remind me of Dora.