You're like my fairy godmother, and Santa Claus, and Q all wrapped up into one! Q from Bond, not Star Trek.

Buffy ,'Help'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Toddson - Nov 04, 2011 9:30:00 am PDT #2180 of 30001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Yeah ... but he has great cheekbones. I'm shallow and easily entertained.


Toddson - Nov 04, 2011 9:39:40 am PDT #2181 of 30001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

and, just for the image, Helena Bonham Carter as Miss Havisham.


Atropa - Nov 04, 2011 9:43:52 am PDT #2182 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

and, just for the image, Helena Bonham Carter as Miss Havisham.

Ooooooh. I want to look like THAT.


Atropa - Nov 04, 2011 9:58:06 am PDT #2183 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

ION, I'm invoking the FPC, but can I have some hairpats? Therapy this week was (once again) hard, and today is just ... ugh. There's nothing happening with the job hunt, I feel overwhelmed and stressed out about everything, and I just want to lay down and cry for a while.

On the good side, I have managed to work on the fiction project every day of November so far. That's something, I guess. But yeah, I feel ... not good right now.


Liese S. - Nov 04, 2011 10:01:08 am PDT #2184 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Oh, Jilli, hairpats galore! Hard therapy is probably good therapy, but that doesn't make it any easier. You are valuable and loved and it's totally okay to feel overwhelmed. You have had a shit ton going on in your life, and it's a totally normal reaction. But you're smart and savvy and pretty and you can get through this.


amyth - Nov 04, 2011 10:02:39 am PDT #2185 of 30001
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

Lots of hairpats, Jilli. LOTS.

And what Liese said. She said it better than I could.


brenda m - Nov 04, 2011 10:05:02 am PDT #2186 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Sorry things are so tough, Jilli. I hope you find your way to a better mindset soon. Lay down and cry if you think it will help. Or if not, not, but I hope something helps.


erikaj - Nov 04, 2011 10:06:04 am PDT #2187 of 30001
Always Anti-fascist!

It's like Woody Allen said "Life's so hard and miserable. And it's over so soon."


Deena - Nov 04, 2011 10:09:57 am PDT #2188 of 30001
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

Jilli, you are such a joy to everyone you meet. You inspire me, and Kara, who has never actually met you. You bring beauty and whimsy to the world. So many of us want to impact the world for the better, and you do every day. I hope the hard goes away soon, and you feel better soon.


Ginger - Nov 04, 2011 10:16:57 am PDT #2189 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

The problem with admiring Jim Caviezel's cheekbones is that eventually you notice that he's talking.

I will, naturally, be in Nashville while Kate is Massachusetts. I have promised my mother to stay longer than usual, because I haven't been up there for a while. We gave up on turkeys some years ago, because they're really a lot of effort for three people. I am supposed to choose what we're having, because I never express an opinion. She doesn't make anything I don't like. As a general rule, I try not to be the person who picks out anything, because if anything goes wrong, it will be my fault.

Feel better, Jilli. You're talented and creative and have a wonderful sense of self, and that will take you to good places. You also have every reason to feel overwhelmed.