Oh, Cass, it's so hard, isn't it?
It's totally okay, it's the honest answer to the question. I'm glad you were able to stay with him, though, that's part of why you're there, right? But yeah, it's just not easy.
Jayne: Well... I don't like the idea of someone hearin' what I'm thinkin'. Inara: No one likes the idea of hearing what you're thinking.
'Objects In Space'
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Liese S. - Sep 23, 2012 3:48:11 pm PDT #20621 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."
sj - Sep 23, 2012 3:50:08 pm PDT #20622 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Oh, {{{{{Cass}}}}}. Please, don't be sorry. I genuinely wanted to know, or I wouldn't have asked. I'm sorry that things are so difficult.
le nubian - Sep 23, 2012 3:50:24 pm PDT #20623 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."
I'm sorry Cass. That does sound hard.
Which is a depressing answer to your question. Sorry.
Don't apologize for this. You don't offend with your truth.
Zenkitty - Sep 23, 2012 3:53:25 pm PDT #20624 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Cass, don't apologize! It's true, and it's so hard.
omnis_audis - Sep 23, 2012 4:09:00 pm PDT #20625 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
((( Cass ))) We are here for ya.
erin_obscure - Sep 23, 2012 4:15:09 pm PDT #20626 of 30001
Occasionally I’m callous and strange
{{{{Cass}}}} You are doing such a wonderful thing, being there for him and the rest of the family right now. No one would expect that to be peachy. Nice that yr unpacked tho! I just finished unpacking my last box last week. Seriously, how many years have I been in this house??
Amy - Sep 23, 2012 4:17:42 pm PDT #20627 of 30001
Because books.
I know it's so hard, Cass. But I'm glad you're getting to spend this time with him. Thinking about you.
Hil R. - Sep 23, 2012 4:21:18 pm PDT #20628 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
{{{Cass}}}
By chance, how well does your place keep out the weather? Is it drafty? Are the windows single pane, and you can feel the outside temperature?
This house was built in 1890. It's incredibly drafty, the windows are all single pane, and during the winter, I put up insulated curtains on the big windows, but it's still freezing.
Cass - Sep 23, 2012 4:22:59 pm PDT #20629 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
Oh, Cass, it's so hard, isn't it?
It really is. But it's exactly why I moved here. It would be unbearably hard to not be here.
Actually my Dad even said he was really happy that I had moved. It was on Friday which was a really hard day for him and it was out of the blue. I managed to not completely cry. I am never forgetting that moment.
Cass - Sep 23, 2012 4:26:42 pm PDT #20630 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
I just finished unpacking my last box last week. Seriously, how many years have I been in this house??
Oh, if I even pause in unpacking, I tend to stop. That's why it has to be done now. Honestly, some old pictures are boxed and staying that way. I labeled the boxes with the year when I packed them. Clearly I knew they were going to be stored, not unpacked.
And the nicer and more mine I make this place, the better.