Buffy ,'The Killer In Me'
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ugh, smonster, sorry about the attack of the insecurities. I wish I knew how to make it better.
S'okay. He gets back to town today. He'll call me or he won't. Am listening to Tara Brach. It'll pass, and then return, and so on. Spirals of experience. Just trying to stay with what I'm feeling.
I know how you feel, smonster. Princess Dobbycry never replied re: pie, so I guess that's not a thing that's happening.
FSIL meets the parents in five hours. Any tips for her?
Stand her ground without being rude and remember that she loves your brother. Especially when she is feeling very discouraged.
FSIL meets the parents in five hours. Any tips for her?
To be herself and realize that there is no "perfect" way to act or thing to say that will get them over their narrow-mindedness.
And here, P-C, this always makes me feel better: Cute Animals, Bad Dates - [link]
She's worried about how they'll react to her mixed-up broken family. They think her parents are divorced, but in fact they were never even married, and they're just not together now.
She learned from bad examples, and knows the mistakes not to make? All best luck to her, P-C, and to your brother.
That's one of her key arguments!
well done buffistas. good advice. tell them thank you
P-C, lots of luck to your FSIL.
Is there a polite way to compose an "Is there a baby yet?" email to someone who was due a week ago and hasn't been online since then (at least, not that I've seen). I don't want to be pushy, and I don't want to be all "Baby! Baby!" if, G-d forbid, something went wrong. But I have a present to give her and I want to say congratulations and stuff. Usually people in the math department will announce babies in the weekly newsletter, but she's pretty private about a lot of stuff, so I don't think she will.
Hil, I guess it depends on how well you know her. With a good friend, I think an email asking if there's any news and wishing her well would be fine. For someone you're not all that close to, I'd wait a while longer to see if there's an announcement. It's not uncommon for babies to be one or even two weeks overdue, so if you haven't heard anything, there may just be nothing to tell yet. But in the unlikely event that something has gone wrong, she may want to wait a while before telling people, and if the baby was born she's probably not getting much time on the computer these days.
Any tips for her?
You'd probably best ignore me, because my first thought was "Have a backup clip."