Simon: Captain's a good fighter, he must know how to handle a sword. Zoe: I think he knows which end to hold.

'Shindig'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Strix - Oct 27, 2011 6:34:42 pm PDT #1822 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Hopefully he is just being groomzilla and this bullshit will reverse itself in the near future.

I have NEVER understood why throwing a wedding is such a societal excuse to act like an asshole. (Not saying you were implying this, le nubian.)

I mean, organizing a big event can be stressful, but GET OVER IT. You are planning a party and getting married, not going to war. People do not get a "act like a douche and get out of jail free" card because it's a wedding.

I know family politics can amp up the stress, but, damn, some of the antics people get up to and expect to get a pass on because it's THEIR WEDDING is just ridic. Take a couple of Xanax and grab hold of the perspective bar, y'all. It's a wedding; it's supposed to be fun.


WindSparrow - Oct 27, 2011 6:56:43 pm PDT #1823 of 30001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

{{{Sox & DH}}}

{{{Tom & Nora}}}

{{{Maria & DH}}}

{{{FredPete & Hubs}}}

{{{ita & family}}}

I wish I had better words.

You speak for me.

For Groomzilla's bride I wish a happy and healthy life. For Groomzilla, I wish that his vehicle be filled every morning with bunches of wadded up newspapers that take 5 minutes to clean up on days when he has plenty of time, and 20 minutes to clean up on days when he is in a hurry.


le nubian - Oct 27, 2011 7:02:50 pm PDT #1824 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

Erin,

I get you. I like to see a glass as half-full, so that is my attempt.


meara - Oct 27, 2011 7:34:44 pm PDT #1825 of 30001

I had a nice dinner tonight, but OMG was so full I barely ate any of dessert! Not sure how that happened. Met a guy at an alumni event a while back who travels as much as I do (he works for a coffee importer, so he does more international travel--jealous!), so we had a nice foodie dinner and geeked out over frequent flier miles and upgrades and so on. Much fun! We're planning to do it again sometime...in December, since we're both that busy. :) (And if only I were straight, I'd totally consider dating him, but no. I'm thinking of introducing him to my roomie, though)


smonster - Oct 27, 2011 7:46:36 pm PDT #1826 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

bonny, how absolutely atrocious. Patience to you, and swift healing to Bartleby.

I went to a birthday party, and hung with the Americorps volunteers, and carved a pumpkin and had a couple of drinks. Texted StW and went by his house on the way home. We just talked for a while and caught up, and I confirmed that he still does want to see me in whatever spare time he can find. That was enough to put the insecurity demons back at bay. I still really like him. He still wants to hang with me. I guess we'll just keep seeing where it takes us.


Cass - Oct 27, 2011 7:54:54 pm PDT #1827 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

(And if only I were straight, I'd totally consider dating him, but no. I'm thinking of introducing him to my roomie, though)

You are an awesome giver, meara.


smonster - Oct 27, 2011 8:09:25 pm PDT #1828 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

First world problem - can't get my charger to plug into my phone. Not drunk anymore. Wtf.


meara - Oct 27, 2011 8:13:47 pm PDT #1829 of 30001

Yay for StW still wanting to hang out, boo for him being too damn busy!

I figure he and the roomie were both in the Peace Corps...that's something! He might be a little old for her though--I think he's about 38? and she's 28.


Burrell - Oct 27, 2011 8:21:32 pm PDT #1830 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

You can tell her from me that a 10 year age gap is no big whoop.


le nubian - Oct 28, 2011 2:28:04 am PDT #1831 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

meara,

you really are an awesome roommate! Why didn't I have a roommate like you years ago?