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Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Jul 26, 2012 5:35:07 am PDT #17775 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

You are going to look gorgeous in that dress, Aims, and the shoes are great too. Is this for the reunion or another event?

Does anyone have recommendations on good pregnancy books, blogs, websites, etc? No, I'm not pregnant, but things are headed in that direction.


Aims - Jul 26, 2012 5:37:44 am PDT #17776 of 30001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

It's for the reunion. And any other other fancy thing I can go to. I love fancy things.


sj - Jul 26, 2012 5:38:51 am PDT #17777 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

It's for the reunion. And any other other fancy thing I can go to. I love fancy things.

Me too! Which remind me I need to get my dress altered for the wedding I'm going to next month and figure out if I have something to wear to the rehearsal dinner.


Burrell - Jul 26, 2012 6:53:43 am PDT #17778 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

No one should feel guilty about spending $50 on a dress, Aimee. Plus it's so purty.

sj, I found that most pregnancy books were pretty ideological. We had one good one that was just about what parts of the baby were developing at what time but I can't recall what that one was called. Much as I hated it, I tended to consult What to Expect most often because it was so easy to use, but I also rolled my eyes a lot.

One book I loved was Happiest Baby on the Block because it gave actual useful advice on how to soothe and calm a newborn. Plus it was written by the doctor who gave Franny her first exam.


sj - Jul 26, 2012 6:57:36 am PDT #17779 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

sj, I found that most pregnancy books were pretty ideological. We had one good one that was just about what parts of the baby were developing at what time but I can't recall what that one was called. Much as I hated it, I tended to consult What to Expect most often because it was so easy to use, but I also rolled my eyes a lot.

Thanks. What about blogs websites, etc? Especially what to eat and not to eat? I'm going to try to adjust my eating habits starting now.

One book I loved was Happiest Baby on the Block because it gave actual useful advice on how to soothe and calm a newborn. Plus it was written by the doctor who gave Franny her first exam.

I just bought that book for my cousin from her registry. Nice to know it is a good one.


Amy - Jul 26, 2012 6:59:39 am PDT #17780 of 30001
Because books.

I think I only ever used What to Expect when I was pregnant the first time, for the same reasons Burrell mentions (and also, wow, that was pre-internet for us), but I love and wholeheartedly recommend Your Baby and Child by Penelope Leach when it comes to baby care. Sensible and straightforward and wonderful.


Burrell - Jul 26, 2012 7:10:03 am PDT #17781 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

wholeheartedly recommend Your Baby and Child by Penelope Leach when it comes to baby care

Oh yeah, that's a good one too. I second Amy's rec.

What to eat also turns out to be a bit ideological, which means you have more wiggle room than you think. Like here in the States we caution against rare and raw meat including fish while the Japanese continue to eat sushi while pregnant, and in France they worry about raw vegetables. I think if you just eat healthy foods mostly and take a good prenatal supplement you're fine. Be sure to get your folate up now, before you get pregnant.


flea - Jul 26, 2012 7:12:22 am PDT #17782 of 30001
information libertarian

Pregnancy, Childbirth, and the Newborn is a pretty standard book - more modern, IMO, than What To Expect. [link]


billytea - Jul 26, 2012 7:14:52 am PDT #17783 of 30001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

We had one good one that was just about what parts of the baby were developing at what time but I can't recall what that one was called.

Was it What's Going On In There? [link] I found that to be certainly the most interesting read while preparing for Ryan.


billytea - Jul 26, 2012 7:17:06 am PDT #17784 of 30001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

In other Ryan news, the duck eggs at his childcare have started hatching! They have five ducklings from eight eggs so far. (The other three need to hatch tomorrow, or else they're pretty much not going to.) Ryan is quite thrilled.