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Aims - Jul 13, 2012 10:28:48 am PDT #16969 of 30001

Shit's all sorts of different now.

So there's a bit of a kerfuffle - or rather, a could-be kerfuffle - on one of the pictures that was posted of the wedding Emeline and I were just in. My stepmother-in-law made a comment that she must be old because she just doesn't understand flip-flops as wedding attire. Now, frankly, I wasn't wild about the idea, but we had cute sundresses, it was an outdoor wedding in the grass, and it was hotter than blazes. The day of, I switched from my heels to my flip flops as soon as I could.

Anyway, the bride saw the comment and responded pretty ... snappishly. Part of me wants to email the bride and say, "It's SMIL - she would never mean to say something shitty." But the other part, knows she said something that really didn't need to be said where the bride could SEE it and she can fight her own battles should she choose to.

People. Sheesh.

meara - Jul 13, 2012 10:33:43 am PDT #16970 of 30001

Wait, was the bride wearing flipflops, Aimee? Or directing you to put them on? I don't get it...

There was a thunderstorm here in Seattle--thunder and lightning and rain! So weird...so not Seattle.

§ ita § - Jul 13, 2012 10:34:40 am PDT #16971 of 30001

Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

"It's SMIL - she would never mean to say something shitty."

But...didn't she? She's a grown up. What does "never mean to" mean in the face of having done so?

Aims - Jul 13, 2012 10:37:10 am PDT #16972 of 30001

Shit's all sorts of different now.

The bride wasn't wearing flip flops but the bridesmaids were. We could wear whatever footwear we wanted. We chose flip flops.

But...didn't she? She's a grown up. What does "never mean to" mean in the face of having done so?

It's my half-assed way of trying to excuse someone I love for saying something shitty. *shrug*

Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Jul 13, 2012 10:42:53 am PDT #16973 of 30001

"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

Thank you for all the birthday wishes! Today has been a lovely day, so I'm having it as fake-birthday. I'm listening to the audiobook of American Gods. How have I spent 33 years on this earth without discovering Neil Gaiman?

Sean, I get (what sounds like) similar gassy/burpy/over-full/nauseous stuff with the gluten intolerance. Definitely sounds like it's worth looking into intolerances. I agree with EpicTangent about trying a day or two without certain things in your diet.

amych - Jul 13, 2012 10:47:23 am PDT #16974 of 30001

Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

How have I spent 33 years on this earth without discovering Neil Gaiman?

We didn't try hard enough?

brenda m - Jul 13, 2012 10:47:56 am PDT #16975 of 30001

If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Those are the cutest freaking wedding pictures and you all look fabulous. Sorry there's been grief.

Aims - Jul 13, 2012 11:01:36 am PDT #16976 of 30001

Shit's all sorts of different now.

Thanks!! I think we look awesome also and the black flip-flops along with the parasols, and wide sashes on our dresses, we look vaguely Japanese-ish style wise. Which totally went along with the bride's 20's look.

People have their opinions, I guess.

Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Jul 13, 2012 11:04:45 am PDT #16977 of 30001

"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

We didn't try hard enough?

This appears to be the case.

sj - Jul 13, 2012 11:21:35 am PDT #16978 of 30001

"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Aims, you look gorgeous in those pictures. I say stay out of the kerfuffle, and let them work it out on their own.

Thank you for all the birthday wishes! Today has been a lovely day, so I'm having it as fake-birthday. I'm listening to the audiobook of American Gods. How have I spent 33 years on this earth without discovering Neil Gaiman?

Next you should read Neverwhere.

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