I have sent an email inquiry about this matter to the bank. But I'm wondering if I should be thinking about the situation more seriously and consider closing my accounts, etc. What do you think?

I think you should go to the credit union ASAP and ask a human WTF is going on, and not leave until you get an answer and it's fixed.

God. I don't have time for this shit. You are right.

I don't have time for this shit.

I hear you! It's always something. But who knows how long it will take for them to even read that email? Me, I wouldn't be able to relax until I knew what was going on.

That's definitely weird, le n. I think Zen is right, you should look into it.

Smonster, started to sand a section by hand. 100 grit. Not fine, not course. Medium. The wall has texture. If I sand, it looks like I'm trimming the hills of the texture, but the gloss remains in the valleys. Do I need to sand if there is texture for the paint to grab onto? Cuz I'd love to keep the subtle texture.

That is... above my pay grade. I'm still a novice when it comes to painting. I'll ask tomorrow at work if I remember.

Some wisdom from my uncle: all women, regardless of nationality, will try to blackmail you if you get help from your in-laws. Ergo, if my parents disown my brother, I should pay his rent rather than let him take his in-laws' offer to live with them.

As opposed to the emotional blackmail in which your parents are engaging? @@

Jilli and le n for the winning responses to P-C's dad. Also, suggest parroting it back during next conversation.

I do think that I need to figure out what _I_ am doing to inspire this behavior. That's two very similar situations in the last 6 months or so. I don't mean that in a 'It's my fault,' sort of way, but in a 'hm. If this is a trend, there is a catalyst. What might that be?' sort of way.

I know what you mean. You may remember I went through a phase where I wondered why I kept falling for alcoholics/problem drinkers and how I could avoid them. My shrink's response was that I wasn't going to be able to break the pattern until I learned from it what I needed to.

One hour past my bedtime. Dog not walked. Kittens not socialized. Dishes not done, lunch for tomorrow not prepped. Did I mention I'm not getting paid for the past two hours? Surgeon owes me $30.

le n, yes, go to credit union stat. Maybe freeze credit online until you figure it out? Check other accounts for weirdness.

Pronouns totally gone. Must crash.

That’s a HUGE red flag, le nub. Someone is probing your account to see if it’s valid.

oh great. now I have alien probes.

I didn't *ask* for the anal probe. *I* didn't ask for the anal probe. I *didn't* ask for the anal probe. I didn't ask for the *anal* probe... [link] /passion fish

How can someone take a random withdrawal from your account? That's really creepy. I've seen scenarios when someone puts some in, but my impression (understanding? guess?) that that took less authority than taking it out. Absolutely report it to your bank, like everyone says. It might be happening to more than one person, too.

(Basically, I'd like everyone to be able to deposit into my accounts AS LONG AS THEY CAN'T TAKE ANYTHING OUT)

(but that's my perhaps flawed plan for making it big...do not emulate without consulting an expert)

Can't sleep. Hip pain. Stretching not helping. Quarter flexeril not helping, adding another quarter. Blecch. TGIF.