A ghost? What's the deal? Is every frat on this campus haunted? And if so, why do people keep coming to these parties, cause it's not the snacks.

Xander ,'Dirty Girls'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Jun 21, 2012 3:44:24 am PDT #15551 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

SJ, how goes the car thing? I hate being without a car. It is my mobility/freedom. Totally feel your pain.

The handicap conversion place is open today despite the fact that it is still very hot, and I have called AAA to tow me there. The mechanic I talked to seemed to think it will be a 5 minute fix; I'm hoping he's right, I'll still be able to get to RI today, which was the original plan.


WindSparrow - Jun 21, 2012 3:57:19 am PDT #15552 of 30001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Ginger snd bonny, between the two of you I am a weepy, happy mess. It is a relief to hear about the progress your treatment is making for you, Ginger. And your neighbor's little boy, Bonny, how touching.

Cagney makes for excellent lumbar support.

in a situation like the one that happened at that bus stop, how could a bystander help? Aside from giving the two-legged animals pieces of her or his mind? My instinct would be to place myself between the aggressive dog and the human with the non-aggressive dog.

Smonster and Stephanie, I do not envy you the not-good feelings about those guys. I wholeheartedly support trusting your instincts in theses matters.

Solstice blessings on all your houses. I shall be celebrating the power of the Sun by putting laundry out on the line.

Hard to believe it was only two days that I was not here. Liking the new iPad, missing my 17 inch laptop.


WindSparrow - Jun 21, 2012 3:58:25 am PDT #15553 of 30001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Sj, I hope your car repair is swift and inexpensive.


Burrell - Jun 21, 2012 3:59:03 am PDT #15554 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

good luck with the car, sj.


beekaytee - Jun 21, 2012 4:24:11 am PDT #15555 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

in a situation like the one that happened at that bus stop, how could a bystander help? Aside from giving the two-legged animals pieces of her or his mind? My instinct would be to place myself between the aggressive dog and the human with the non-aggressive dog.

That is an excellent question.

In this case, there was more than one aggressive person and I'd never advise you to jump into a mob.

Though, an inquisitive shout of "HEY, what's going on?" in a non-aggressive tone will sometimes get the participants to ask themselves the same question.

And your neighbor's little boy, Bonny, how touching

No kidding. It made me tear up again this morning as I passed their house.

The child has waaaay more in common with Cagney...they both are made of torpedo parts. And, frankly, as the kid's mother said, Bartleby really wanted _nothing_ to do with him. Still, it's so sweet and so poignant.


Steph L. - Jun 21, 2012 4:35:58 am PDT #15556 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

bonny, in that situation, I think my snap instinct would be to run the other way, but I assume that would make the aggressive dog want to give chase?

That is so fucking scary. And people SUCK.

My neighborhood can be sketchy (c.f., people shooting up heroin in their car across the street from my house), but all the dog owners I've encountered have been 100% cool about defusing any potentially aggressive behavior.


beekaytee - Jun 21, 2012 4:55:51 am PDT #15557 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

bonny, in that situation, I think my snap instinct would be to run the other way, but I assume that would make the aggressive dog want to give chase?

Right. Except that a dog in prey pursuit is going to jump, whatever you do. I wanted Cagney _behind_ me. If we ran, I could not guarantee that.

I instruct the walkers to first seek shelter, then a weapon. Thankfully, our neighborhood has lots of iron fences, over which you can throw an at risk dog.

In this particular case, there was no shelter and I was in as much risk from the people as the dog.


WindSparrow - Jun 21, 2012 5:42:09 am PDT #15558 of 30001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

In this case, there was more than one aggressive person and I'd never advise you to jump into a mob.
I might think twice about an armed mob, but my size and sturdiness can create an effective barrier. I was thinking more about the dog than the mob, though.


sj - Jun 21, 2012 6:06:21 am PDT #15559 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

My car is fixed. It didn't cost me anything. And I can still spend the day in RI like I planned to.


Scrappy - Jun 21, 2012 6:27:23 am PDT #15560 of 30001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Good news, sj!