Jeez, don't get all Movie of the Week. I was just too cheap to buy you a real present.

Dawn ,'The Killer In Me'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Jun 18, 2012 3:53:37 pm PDT #15429 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I think percocet is happening around 11 pm, when the Overdose Window is gone.


billytea - Jun 18, 2012 4:06:24 pm PDT #15430 of 30001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Kate, just one more person to add to the pile, but since I was adopted as an infant I was pretty much solely bottle fed. I have turned out pretty well in most respects.

t eyes Ryan suspiciously


meara - Jun 18, 2012 4:35:29 pm PDT #15431 of 30001

I was breast fed--my mom was hippie La Leche league. But I don't know how much good stuff that actually says. :)

I am so over these stupid shin splints. Why? Body I am trying to be good to you and get to running and you persist in thwarting me!


Pix - Jun 18, 2012 5:16:20 pm PDT #15432 of 30001
The status is NOT quo.

Billytea just made me snort.

Kate, my mom breast fed me for about two months, but when she went back to work and my dad took over, I was bottle fed after that. It's all good!


Nora Deirdre - Jun 18, 2012 5:29:43 pm PDT #15433 of 30001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Well, sometimes running isn't good for some bodies?


Burrell - Jun 18, 2012 5:35:59 pm PDT #15434 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Kate, I do agree that your baby will be happy and well adjusted if you wean her, but I want to add that I found people were very rigid when I was having trouble producing enough milk for Franny. The lactation consultants esp were the worst. It was all or nothing. But one NP was supportive and suggested I add a bottle or two of formula to supplement and the nurse for as long as I liked. And then just like that everything was okay. I nursed until 12 months but also used formula to make sure my kids got enough. I just didn't make enough milk on my own.


askye - Jun 18, 2012 6:06:56 pm PDT #15435 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

I am home from Florida.

Penny is glad to see me. Dean seems aloof.

Discovered that my bedspread was pulled on the floor in the bedroom, in front of where the 2nd litter box is, and 1 or both of the cats peed on it multiple times. At least it looks like multiple times. I'm pretty sure the bedspread is stained beyond repair but I have it soaking and I'll see what happens. Not just one spot. But about a 2 1/2 foot space that was peed on.

Now I have to start figuring out how to break Dean (I know he's the culprit) of his behavioral peeing.

Not really the home coming I was hoping for.


P.M. Marc - Jun 18, 2012 6:38:07 pm PDT #15436 of 30001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Is the baby happy? Is the baby fed? Are you happy and comfortable and getting plenty of quality time in with your kid?

These are ultimately the most important things. Sometimes, the mouth and the boob just don't click. It happens.

I mean, I breastfed for what felt like a million years, but if the latch she had at the end had been the one she started with, I am not sure I could have made it two months. I want to cross my arms in front of my nipples protectively just thinking about it.


Burrell - Jun 18, 2012 6:44:18 pm PDT #15437 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Ugh askye. I've been trying to use that Feliway spray to stop my cat from peeing on things. It seems... promising... but I forgot to spray my bed for a bit and after a week she peed on it again.


DavidS - Jun 18, 2012 6:44:29 pm PDT #15438 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Emmett could not get a good latch on his mom. He was (according to La Leche) "a disorganized eater" and his mother's breasts were so full they flattened out the nipples. Also he was unusually active early on (like, physically turned over on the doctor's table at two weeks) so he'd pull his head away when he got excited about pulling in some milk. What else - he also had a tongue tie. All in all, it was an unceasing, stressful ordeal for all of us.

JZ, however, has very happy memories of nursing Matilda. So different babies and moms do better with different approaches. To paraphrase Jesse.