sending out the ma~~~~ Cashmere
I wear the cheese. It does not wear me.
Cheese Man ,'Chosen'
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
beth b - Jun 13, 2012 1:36:22 pm PDT #15222 of 30001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
amyth - Jun 13, 2012 2:16:32 pm PDT #15223 of 30001
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen
Cash, I'm so sorry.
Pix - Jun 13, 2012 2:55:06 pm PDT #15224 of 30001
The status is NOT quo.
Damn! Cash, sending swift recovery and easy remission vibes to your mom.
Scrappy - Jun 13, 2012 2:59:04 pm PDT #15225 of 30001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
So very sorry, Cash! I hope treatment is swift and effective.
smonster - Jun 13, 2012 3:02:33 pm PDT #15226 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
Good outcome~ma, Cash.
SailAweigh - Jun 13, 2012 3:03:43 pm PDT #15227 of 30001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb
{{Karl}} I am so sorry for your loss.
{{Cash}} That sucks donkey balls. I hope it's an early stage and easily treatable.
And from farther back:
Yay, exam passing, Anne! Keep up the good work.
Multiply like the wind, little cells for Ginger.
Sean, great review! The play sounded delightful.
brenda m - Jun 13, 2012 3:11:47 pm PDT #15228 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
Karl, I'm so deeply sorry. She left a great legacy to the world.
And Cash, very best wishes to you all.
JZ - Jun 13, 2012 4:11:31 pm PDT #15229 of 30001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
I'm so very sorry, Karl. I wish we could see you around these parts more often, but not for reasons like this. Never for reasons like this.
And, Cash, God damn cancer. Fucking hell. I'm enraged for your mom and your family.
omnis_audis - Jun 13, 2012 4:28:58 pm PDT #15230 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
{{{Cashmere}}}
{{{Karl}}}
Fuck Cancer, indeed.
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I got the appraisal for the condo today. My purchase price is $120k, the appraisal came in at $125k! Instant $5k equity. Woot. That shaved about a year off of PMI.
Zenkitty - Jun 13, 2012 4:28:59 pm PDT #15231 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Much ~ma for your mom, Cash.
Zen - comment about something you have in common and/or ask a question about something in his profile that intrigues you. It sounds obvious and yet weird to contemplate, but I've found that people are much more likely to email back if you ask a question.
Good advice! If I can't find something in his profile interesting enough to ask a question about, maybe I'm not really that into him.
Also, bonny, sounds like you found yourself another "user" personality. She takes for granted that you'll do whatever she needs, she offers you nothing in return except the use of something you don't really need and that doesn't "cost" her anything, AND you're supposed to get the A/C repaired while she's away?? Good grief. And I can't help but note that when you needed to get Bartleby to the doctor quick, you first tried to get a zipcar before you asked this woman to borrow her car. Doesn't sound like she's someone you really trust to be there for you when the chips are down.
I don't think friendships should be based on "what have you done for me lately", and I don't even think that it's necessarily bad if one person does significantly more giving than the other. It's when a long-term pattern of one-sided giving sets in, with the other person taking the giver for granted, and taking advantage by asking for more and more favors.