Pix, I hope you get completely better soon.

{{{smonster}}}

I don't remember sleeping with my brothers but I have clear memories of taking baths with the one closest to my age when we were quite young (I think I was probably not in first grade yet, putting him at no more than 11).

My brother is just 11 months younger than me and we bathed together when little. I think the only reason I remember is that he screamed the whole time. Hated water. I suspect that mom thought my water loving fishy ways would influence him.

Em looks very elegant and rather fey.

Wow, Em looks all grown up! And she's beautiful too.

Aims, Em looks so elegant!

I hope you feel better soon, Pix.

Ginger, may the good days stretch on and on into the horizon.

Pix, my love, sorry you're sick.

My brother and I bathed together when little. And I don't think there's anything wrong with letting siblings sleep together. My sister and I certainly did.

Had an outstandingly delicious dinner with my guests (Maurepas, Nora, thanks as usual for the perfect suggestions!), got a Pimm's cup at the Lost Love Lounge, and then chilled at an outside party in Bywater with a band and booze and stuff. Didn't make it to Frenchman, but that's okay. Today I'm making them blueberry pancakes and bacon, and we may go check out a second line in Treme (and Nora, if you and Tom would like to come with, please do!).

Yay! I love Maurepas. Gotta get back there soon.

There were 4 of us, mom tried to get as many into the bath at one time as she possibly could. And yes, my kids do bathe together usually. They prefer a play mate in the tub. Every so often we try transitioning to bathing alone or to showering alone, but the kids make it clear they prefer being together in the bath.

So much about raising kids is fraught with this weird ideological baggage, but really it's just parents trying to manage.

eta in response to Nora, of course:

And I quote - "That's the best meal we've had out since we got back to America" (from living in Germany).

I never really suggested to the boys that they stop sleeping with us or bathing together. It happened without us noticing at some point in time. They had their room and at some point they preferred it. I suppose they bathed together until they were old enough to bathe without company.

That reminds me that I need to pull out the bubbles covered pictures of them in the tub together to threaten Facebook exposure. It could get them to clean their rooms. Yes, I use bribery and threats without guilt.