Don't belong. Dangerous, like you. Can't be controlled. Can't be trusted. Everyone could just go on without me and not have to worry. People could be what they wanted to be. Could be with the people they wanted. Live simple. No secrets.

River ,'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


askye - May 23, 2012 3:24:54 pm PDT #13816 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

Yeah I don't think anyone should be expected to write thank you notes for funerals.


askye - May 23, 2012 3:31:35 pm PDT #13817 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

So the little hummingbird I rescued didn't make it. The lady I spoke to said in the 4 years she's worked at the rehab place only 1 has made it. They are tiny and fragile. But I was able to give the little bird a few days of comfort.

Dean, I think might have a UTI. Which would explain some of the peeing. I can't get him into the vet's until June 2. Or, rather, the vet won't allow me drop him off and the only appointments available were middle of the day and it would mean leaving at noon and possibly having to take the whole afternoon off. I may try to find a vet in Burlington that will allow me to drop him off, even for a first visit.


smonster - May 23, 2012 3:38:01 pm PDT #13818 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Cass, all my brackets are belong to you. And yeah, forget those stupid cards.

askye, I saw that on fb. Poor wee birdie, you took good care of her. I hope you can get an appt for Dean pronto, that whole peeing on things thing is no fun. Unless you can arrange him peeing on Ginger's insurance conference.

I am bleeding a bit. My fault, I tried to sit in the chair below which Bella was occupying space. She didn't even screech, just clawed the shit out of me.

Today was a long and frustrating day. Or, to look at it positively, I got to problem-solve some interesting situations today! SMILEY FACE. So I'm eating a fried egg with bubble and squeak, which is quickly becoming a favorite comfort food.


Cass - May 23, 2012 3:38:38 pm PDT #13819 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Oh, I am so sorry, askye. But comfort is important. Especially if it was the last thing the poor little bird knew. There is some huge plant in bloom at my parents' house that feeds hummingbirds and they were all around. Loud wings.

I hope you can get Dean in soon. It'll be a relief for both of you.


Steph L. - May 23, 2012 3:47:14 pm PDT #13820 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

smonster, I have a hip pain question for you. I don't remember what muscles are the big culprit for you, but do you think there's iliopsoas involvement? And do you stretch your iliopsoas?

I ask because I started doing a new-to-me iliopsoas stretch the other night (basically an extreme version of the kneeling iliopsoas stretch), and it seems to be helping my hips. The pain isn't gone, but it's better, especially when I wake up.

It's this stretch: [link] It's kind of brutal, but I'm serious, the first night I did it was Monday night, and I woke up Tuesday morning with much less pain and much more mobility.


askye - May 23, 2012 3:49:10 pm PDT #13821 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

Dean seems to have stopped peeing on things. But he was in the litter box and he seemed to be in there a while and didn't have much to show for it.

I get that they want the owners there during the visit. But the vet in Tallahassee was really good about understanding about how people have jobs and can't always take time to be there with their pet. Plus the fact that a lot of people around here work in Burlington, which takes me 40 minutes to get to work. You would think the vet could make some kind of arrangements. Or be flexible.

And then Penny is due for some shots and when I was talking to receptionist she made it sound like it might be July before I could get a Saturday appointment for Penny.


smonster - May 23, 2012 4:14:10 pm PDT #13822 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

But he was in the litter box and he seemed to be in there a while and didn't have much to show for it.

IANAV, but that sounds like he may have crystals in his urine. Nora would have more to say about it.

It's this stretch:

BRB, going to try this right now. I stretch my psoas via acupressure with various spherical objects but it's not enough. And I've had this thing lately where my right knee is killing me, and I'll stretch my hamstring and it'll be better for a few minutes and then hurt again.


Zenkitty - May 23, 2012 4:16:41 pm PDT #13823 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

You did a good thing for the little bird, askye, even if it was a brief time.

smonster, that idea you had for a handywoman service? I think you should do it, preferably here. I was thinking today that one of the things stopping me from looking for a (much-needed) handyman is the idea of a bunch of guys I don't know knowing that I'm a woman living alone. Although, really, all the delivery guys know it, anyway.


Zenkitty - May 23, 2012 4:22:14 pm PDT #13824 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I never heard of a psoas muscle, but if it's harmed by sitting, mine is probably fucked. I should try that stretch. It doesn't look...hard, though, to me. I'm so bendy around the hips it's hard to get a real stretch.


Ginger - May 23, 2012 4:33:03 pm PDT #13825 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Or, to look at it positively, I got to problem-solve some interesting situations today!

Or, as Pogo said, "Life is full of insurmountable opportunities."