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Strix - May 03, 2012 8:57:38 am PDT #12615 of 30001

A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Oh, Ginger.

In OMGWTFBBQ news, I just got a random, out of the blue "amends" phone call from a girl who tormented me in school, who wished to sincerely apologize for the way she treated me.

I forgave her (sincerely) but HOW WEIRD AND SYNCHRONISTIC is that?!

FWIW, I barely remembered her, because so many other people were so much meaner to me, but it was a very nice thing to do.

ETA: And yes, I had a drs' appointment on Monday. My BP has gone from 115/75 to 95/60 and I have lost 50 pounds since January 2011, so things are fine. I am on meds and doing yoga, so I think this down-swing is just something my brane does on occasion. I am working my way out of it.

brenda m - May 03, 2012 8:59:40 am PDT #12616 of 30001

If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

And Erin too. I have had days if not weeks when unloading the dishwasher was the only thing I could cling to.

omnis_audis - May 03, 2012 9:00:07 am PDT #12617 of 30001

omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Ginger! so many brackets for you too sorry your post hot while I was writing mine. Wow this board is moving fast today..

meara - May 03, 2012 9:01:36 am PDT #12618 of 30001

Oh Ginger--again, wish we all were closer and could help out. :(

Erin, that's bizarre! Did she know your number from some other time or what? But still, awesome feeling. I've had that sort of thing happen once or twice (well, once it was an ex, apologizing for being an ass, a few years later) and it feels pretty darn good. Even if the original thing still happened, at least I get to feel righteous?

Ginger - May 03, 2012 9:02:51 am PDT #12619 of 30001

"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Also, Erin and all of you who are suffering with things, never think, "My pain is not as bad as that person's pain, so I won't say anything." Pain is pain. I've never found my pain to be lessened by acknowledging that others' pain is worse. I think "I cried because I had no shoes until I met a man who had no feet" is crap. You still need shoes.

Erin's post just resonated with me particularly, because I've done and felt similar things over the last year or so and didn't have her guts to face them head on.

Strix - May 03, 2012 9:03:37 am PDT #12620 of 30001

A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

My number is posted on my LinkedIn, and she talked about what an amazing, accomplished person I (seem) to have become, so universe is thwapping me upside the head with a cluestick today, which is all to the good.

Toddson - May 03, 2012 9:08:38 am PDT #12621 of 30001

Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

But cluesticking in a GOOD way! may this be the first day of an upswing for you.

Strix - May 03, 2012 9:17:08 am PDT #12622 of 30001

A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

I am going to do my best to make it so (#1)

Zenkitty - May 03, 2012 9:17:45 am PDT #12623 of 30001

Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Damn it. I want to go slay metaphorical dragons for Ginger and Erin.

Burrell - May 03, 2012 9:18:05 am PDT #12624 of 30001

Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Sending lots of love and support your way, Ginger. And lots of ~ma for good MRI results!

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