I look back on when I had K-Bug and I was back to work almost immediately. I didn't have any maternity benefits. Was working for H&R Block. K-Bug was born in late March and I remember the crush of tax season. Granted, I took her to work with me and the ladies in the back office would watch over her for me.

That's the thing. We have some of the best medical care in the world in the United States, which some of the shittiest access to that care.

ChiKat,

I think everyone should have excellent preventative care and very good medical care for all else. I don't think any country's health system (especially not one the size of the US) could sustain the quality of care that say Obama, GW Bush, and especially Cheney have all received.

For example, Cheney has 1-2 attendants with him at all times to tend to his heart if he has a problem. I don't think he is paying for that out of pocket.

could sustain the quality of care that say Obama, GW Bush, and especially Cheney have all received.

I think it could sustain the quality of care that Congresspeople get, though.

Cheney has 1-2 attendants with him at all times to tend to his heart if he has a problem

Has, meaning today, and not while he was VP? Do you have anything to back that up? See here: [link] Cheney's not getting anything better than that, unless he's paying for it himself.

do you really think so? The 60 minutes expose on the daycare they received was enlightening. I know the country could not sustain that. At all.

I had 3 weeks paid maternity leave, and my university started that literally the week Casper was born. Before that you relied on vacation and sick time.

Maria,

no! I don't know for sure. He definitely was getting it as VP and I thought I heard that was still the arrangement now, but I don't know.

Maybe he is paying for that out of pocket! he has enough $$.

I had 3 weeks paid maternity leave, and my university started that literally the week Casper was born. Before that you relied on vacation and sick time.

Good lord. Ugh. Now I feel like a real whiner complaining about five whole weeks...

I think I had 11-12 weeks of disability -- I also had another 4 months' worth of sick leave, which I would dearly have loved to have used, what with needing a full paycheck, craving more time with my child, desperately needing more sleep, and not having any other reason to use it; I was told before Matilda was born that of course I could use the sick leave to extend my maternity leave, and then after she was born I was told that oh, no, of course I couldn't possibly do that, on account of the order in which the paperwork had been filed or something.

And yet, even with the struggling and the misery and the tiny disability pay, I *still* got much more leave than so many other new-parent Buffistas.

And last night, fussing over the FAQFamily pictures, Hec and I talked about the badness of my C-section and how it led to the tremendous goodness of five postpartum days before discharge. After that first night's scare with the brief ICN stay, it was just day after day of quiet and rest and brief visits and daily check-ins with lactation consultants and other people bringing my food and taking away the dirty dishes; getting some sleep, and bonding with Matilda, and just generally taking the necessary time after a giant life-changing and physically grinding event to pull ourselves together for the next big leap.

And I can't for the life of me see why that isn't just standard of care for *every* new parent. If you want to leave early and the doctors give everyone the all-clear then that's great, but the option should be there for everyone, no matter which way the baby came out.