You're like my fairy godmother, and Santa Claus, and Q all wrapped up into one! Q from Bond, not Star Trek.

Buffy ,'Help'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Scrappy - Oct 19, 2011 7:37:03 am PDT #1244 of 30001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

What ND said.


Toddson - Oct 19, 2011 7:40:51 am PDT #1245 of 30001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

The "healthcare" system is broken and people go batshit when there's a suggestion to change it. And many of the decisions as to whether something will be paid or not are made by clerks in an insurance company office. For instance, did I mention that my appendectomy two years ago was disallowed - seemingly, I should not have been checked into a room for the day and a half I was there.


Ginger - Oct 19, 2011 7:45:45 am PDT #1246 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Short term/long term disability has also been broken for years. Like so many things, it seems all the money involved in administering it goes to trying to not pay out any money.


Kate P. - Oct 19, 2011 8:08:25 am PDT #1247 of 30001
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

My maternity leave is going to be covered by short-term disability, which my company just got basically so that I could have any maternity leave at all. For which I'm quite grateful. But the policy they chose, although it goes up to 12 weeks for illness or injury, only gives 5 weeks of paid maternity leave. (Well, I'd get more if there were complications with delivery, but let's hope that doesn't happen...) Anyway, am I crazy to think that 5 weeks is, like, no time at all?? I suppose I'm lucky that my boss will let me take vacation/personal time and unpaid leave to supplement it, so I'm hoping I can take maybe three months altogether, but they'll be a fairly lean three months.


le nubian - Oct 19, 2011 8:09:12 am PDT #1248 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

did I mention that my appendectomy two years ago was disallowed

Getouttahere


Burrell - Oct 19, 2011 8:15:25 am PDT #1249 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

5 weeks would be hard, Kate. I say take more time even if it's unpaid if you can afford it.


meara - Oct 19, 2011 8:17:38 am PDT #1250 of 30001

Sadly, I think most people I know have only gotten maybe 6 weeks paid (and usually supplemented that with vacation or whatever, and used FMLA for some unpaid time too)


Burrell - Oct 19, 2011 8:21:11 am PDT #1251 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I had 10 weeks paid leave, but I think 6 weeks is more common.


ChiKat - Oct 19, 2011 8:22:06 am PDT #1252 of 30001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

I get irrational and stupidly angry about the insurance issue. Disallowing an appendectomy?? WTH?


Tom Scola - Oct 19, 2011 8:23:38 am PDT #1253 of 30001
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

Having an appendix is a pre-existing condition.