Funny thing about black and white. You mix it together and you get gray. And it doesn't matter how much white you try and put back in, you're never gonna get anything but gray.

Lilah ,'Destiny'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Nora Deirdre - Apr 11, 2012 6:38:03 pm PDT #11277 of 30001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

smonster, are they staying downtown or in the GD?


Pix - Apr 11, 2012 6:39:26 pm PDT #11278 of 30001
The status is NOT quo.

I’m so sorry, Laura.

In other fuck cancer news, I found out today that my head of school (who is 45) learned during spring break that her husband has an aggressive, stage 4 cancer and a very poor prognosis. He is also in his 40s. They have two daughters.


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Apr 12, 2012 4:01:42 am PDT #11279 of 30001
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

Thinking of you, Ginger.

Went to Israel for Passover, which was nice. And I got to see Shir, who once again crossed half the country so that we could talk sociology for hours and hours. She's fab.


sumi - Apr 12, 2012 4:57:10 am PDT #11280 of 30001
Art Crawl!!!

I was mostly absent yesterday due to feeling like crap and having a headache. Then I got home from work and had a pink letter from my doctor's office. Opened it up: they want me to get an mri on my left breast. Called right away and I have to see a surgeon to get referred to the mri. (I need an mri on my kidney already so I made an appt with the same surgeon as before - I figure he'll know what's up.) Anyway, there were lots of cysts in both breasts and they couldn't see if they were solid or filled with liquid or what.

Made a crappy day even crappier. But, I got a call from a good friend and we talked and talked the evening away. . . had an excellent night's sleep and feel so much better today.

Surgeon: next Tuesday.

Lots of comfort to Laura and Bobby. . .such a horrible thing to happen.

And continued ~ma for Ginger.


smonster - Apr 12, 2012 5:14:12 am PDT #11281 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Lots of ~ma to you, sumi!!

Nora, they are at the Avenue Inn on St. Charles. Very nice. They greeted us with fresh cookies! And we ate at Il Posto.

Hi Seska!


sj - Apr 12, 2012 5:25:59 am PDT #11282 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Tons of ~ma, sumi!

Seska! It's good to see you here.


Burrell - Apr 12, 2012 5:37:42 am PDT #11283 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

sending mucho ~ma your way, sumi!


DavidS - Apr 12, 2012 5:37:58 am PDT #11284 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

-ma for you, sumi.


JZ - Apr 12, 2012 6:04:12 am PDT #11285 of 30001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Lots of ~ma, sumi. And a shaggy Welsh pony for extra love.


Tom Scola - Apr 12, 2012 6:11:15 am PDT #11286 of 30001
Where do you come from? Where do you go? What is your scene, baby? We just gotta know.

~ma, sumi.

Also, this Icelandic horse.