Oh dear, Ginger. I am sorry to hear that awful news. What everyone has said about wanting to have something more concrete we can do. And yes, there is a curve and there are people in the % that beat the cancer.
I'll share my neighbor's story. He had the dreaded vicious aggressive pancreatic cancer. He had a couple years of gruesome treatment, lost a ton of weight, apparently diabetes is a related issue so he had miserable inability to heal issues, sold his business interests, said his goodbyes. The doctors had no encouraging words; they told his mother and partner maybe 5%, but he was in and out of critical because he didn't handle the treatments well. But he fought back somehow. And he shocked and surprised everyone, including himself. The last time I saw him out riding his bike he told me his doctor didn't want to see him for another year because his last few rounds of testing everything all showed him free and clear. And of course now he has to tell everyone he meets how to eat right and exercise and live our lives.
I do have to add that his partner's theory is that he is such an asshole neither god nor the devil want him. He could be right about that. The cancer is apparently cured, but he is still a jerk.
So I am not recommending that you start being a jerk, because I don't think that is the key. But I do want to send all the strength I have to you. May the doctors have a plan for treatment that works quickly and effectively.