Don't you have an elsewhere to be?

Cordelia ,'Lessons'


Buffista Business Talk: I wanted simple, I wanted in-and-out, I wanted easy money.

A virtual watercooler where Buffistas in business can talk, share, exchange, bemoan, exult and assorted other power verbs associated with all areas of running/starting up a business. For existing or potential Buffista business owners of all types. Spamming is NOT ON. A list of our Buffista owned businesses is on our links page.


Strix - Jun 28, 2011 8:55:46 am PDT #132 of 1416
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Also, bonny, insent!

I quite liked the post, and it's really good advice. Dan and I have to sit down soon and reset some financial goals and our approach to budgeting, in light of more recent development, and neither one of us is enthusiastic about it.

I think we'll make a money date, maybe reward ourselves with a movie after!


amych - Jun 28, 2011 9:03:42 am PDT #133 of 1416
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Bonny, that's an awesome post -- I found it a breeze to read in spite of the length (in fact, it didn't feel particularly long at all), because you have a good grip on structuring things well for the web, with short sections, clear subheadings, flow from one bit to the next. It's the long slog through endless gray text that makes long writing fail on the web, not the overall length.

(Plus, I need to keep the actual content in mind. We're good at the sharing and agreeing after having made ourselves learn to be, but following the plan, not always so much. Sigh.)


beekaytee - Jun 28, 2011 9:19:45 am PDT #134 of 1416
Compassionately intolerant

By the way, Erin, I meant to write about your site launch. I have to say, I love it. The humor and competency come through beautifully.

I like the way you changed the 'about' page. Nice one!


Strix - Jun 28, 2011 9:43:04 am PDT #135 of 1416
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Thanks, bonny! It's still in-progress, but I am becoming increasingly pleased with it...thanks to Ginger and Amy's gracious help.


Laga - Jun 30, 2011 10:06:53 am PDT #136 of 1416
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

I cannot make Zazzle work. Do we have any buffistas out there selling bumper stickers? I would buy

"BECAUSE they LOVE each other and they DESERVE to be HAPPY"

if you would make it.

love, -Laga


Volans - Jul 01, 2011 4:59:33 am PDT #137 of 1416
move out and draw fire

I need to do some zazzle stuff, so I'll try to add that bumper sticker to my shop today.

"OOh, I've bought a bunch of your paintings and I love them! I want more! Will you give me one free?"

Speaking as the child of two fine artists, this shit actually happens.


Toddson - Jul 01, 2011 5:16:19 am PDT #138 of 1416
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Raq, I can believe it. It's on a par with people who meet a doctor or lawyer and ask for free medical or legal advice.


beekaytee - Jul 01, 2011 7:28:01 am PDT #139 of 1416
Compassionately intolerant

I actually don't mind when people ask me things on the fly. If I'm in the mood, I will too often 'give it away.' But, I can also draw good boundaries when I want to and can calmly offer my card.

The thing that grinds my gizzard is when people are actively disrespectful or entitled. After all, since what I do just comes from my mind then I SHOULD just give them whatever they need.

Sometimes I wish I was a shopkeeper.

Not really. But, a less complex career choice on my part might have been good.


Laga - Jul 01, 2011 7:59:55 am PDT #140 of 1416
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

I blame the restaurateurs who have conditioned us to expect free things from our friends (but not a whole meal for cying out loud!)


smonster - Jul 01, 2011 8:39:59 am PDT #141 of 1416
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I am grateful when I get comped, but I do not expect it and I never ask for it. I might ask to barter, yes.