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Natter 68: Bork Bork Bork  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


sarameg - Sep 08, 2011 4:11:24 pm PDT #24970 of 30001

There's more to come, Hil. Bulk of it is just south of here, slowly, oh so slowly moving north. This storm is an asshole.

Scrappy nails it.


Atropa - Sep 08, 2011 4:11:40 pm PDT #24971 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Yikes, Kathy!

Also, Kathy be sure that you are okay. Don't assume that you always have headaches and can ignore the bruises only to realize several days later that you were big-time concussed. *cough* For instance.

AHEM, YES, THIS.

Dear Powers That Be, will you PLEASE start playing nicely with my people? Please?


Consuela - Sep 08, 2011 4:16:16 pm PDT #24972 of 30001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Also, Kathy be sure that you are okay. Don't assume that you always have headaches and can ignore the bruises

Indeed! You might have something that shows up only later. I would suggest calling your doctor and telling them what happened. You could have some wrenched muscles, at least, that don't start bothering you for a couple of days.


Kathy A - Sep 08, 2011 4:22:38 pm PDT #24973 of 30001
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil

Also, Kathy be sure that you are okay. Don't assume that you always have headaches and can ignore the bruises only to realize several days later that you were big-time concussed. *cough* For instance

Shaking my finger Cass-ward! Both my friend Tami and my sister were just telling me to be sure to take some Tylenol to take care of the aches I'll more than likely be having by the morning. My tongue is still a bit sore--I must have really crunched it! But, not as bad as when I was around 3 years old, when I almost bit the tip off after jumping off the swing.

I'd try to get $12,000+ out of them.

That's what I was thinking!

You're going to have a tough time finding a used car to match your criteria. The used car market is very strong right now because there's no supply, especially for good condition, fuel efficient, low mileage cars. I'd expect to pay about 2 grand more to replace your car with the same 2008 model that has 35,000 miles.

I figure I'll be able to get a car somewhere in the $13-15K range, but I'd be okay with getting a loan around $5K to cover whatever I don't get from the insurance company. My sister was just telling me that a used car loan will be more difficult/slightly higher interest rate than a new car one. I'm going to contact my bank and see what they could give me before going to the dealer after I decide on the car (if it's not totalled, which is something I'm assuming it will be but might not--I'll know by Tuesday, latest).


Allyson - Sep 08, 2011 4:28:33 pm PDT #24974 of 30001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

You are far more wonderful than you ever give yourself credit for. Really.

I was reading Carol Tavris' book on justification and confirmation bias, and while most people will paint decisions in the best possible light in order to justify themselves as being savvy and smart. People with depression do the opposite and will look for confirmation that they are worthless.


le nubian - Sep 08, 2011 4:35:24 pm PDT #24975 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

Kathy,

if you are willing to give a bit on wanting a used car, I think you should look for 0-3% loans for new cars.

Interest rates are fucking low and I bet you can get a good new car for $12-$15K.

BTW, I only negotiate online via email for cars. Takes all the bullshit out of it and I am much more satisfied with my buying experience.


le nubian - Sep 08, 2011 4:36:19 pm PDT #24976 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

People with depression do the opposite and will look for confirmation that they are worthless

Which explains a lot.


Cass - Sep 08, 2011 4:39:19 pm PDT #24977 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Both my friend Tami and my sister were just telling me to be sure to take some Tylenol to take care of the aches I'll more than likely be having by the morning.

Oh, you'll be sore. Best case, you'll just be sore. I had the concussion (which I recommend not having) and wicked bruising that showed the entire seat belt pattern. Which meant muscles were strained.

I really only took Advil for the pain, but Flexeril for the muscles was a big help. And I refilled that a few times.


Kathy A - Sep 08, 2011 4:40:10 pm PDT #24978 of 30001
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil

if you are willing to give a bit on wanting a used car, I think you should look for 0-3% loans for new cars. Interest rates are fucking low and I bet you can get a good new car for $12-$15K.

You're right! I'll stop by the library and take a look at their Consumer Reports ratings for new cars and see what's out there.

I paid $20K for my Civic new and I definitely don't want to do that again, but if I can find something as good or almost as good for just a bit less, that'd be great!


bon bon - Sep 08, 2011 4:44:08 pm PDT #24979 of 30001
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

The used car market is very strong right now because there's no supply, especially for good condition, fuel efficient, low mileage cars.

The tsunami as well put pressure on the supply, with new Japanese cars not coming out for awhile. Personally, I'm waiting as long as possible to buy the Honda I want. If you can wait a month or two, it might be better when the new cars come back onto the lot. I'm not an expert, though, just an interested party.