Why couldn't Giles have shackles like any self-respecting bachelor?

Xander ,'Beneath You'


Natter 68: Bork Bork Bork  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Cass - Sep 01, 2011 4:02:29 pm PDT #23701 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Jesus Christ. NSFW.

Good god, why do I click?

I wonder the same thing. Everyfriggingtime. Oh, yes, I clicked. And now I have regret.


smonster - Sep 01, 2011 4:02:48 pm PDT #23702 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I am like Steph and I cry when frustrated. It, in itself is very frustrating. What weird people out is that I don't sob, tears just start pouring down my face, and I can totally continue to have the discussion. I hate it because then people get all sympathetic, because they think I am sad or hurt, but really I am just mad!

Me too. Now I generally just say calmly, "Okay, I'm probably going to cry now, just so you know. I cry when I'm angry/frustrated/etc." I tend to cry less and at least it's out there instead of this awkward thing people pretend not to see.


smonster - Sep 01, 2011 4:03:58 pm PDT #23703 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

One of my friends linked this autocorrect on fb, and I've been keeping the tab open b/c it just cracks. me. up. [link]


Hil R. - Sep 01, 2011 4:16:23 pm PDT #23704 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I am like Steph and I cry when frustrated. It, in itself is very frustrating. What weird people out is that I don't sob, tears just start pouring down my face, and I can totally continue to have the discussion. I hate it because then people get all sympathetic, because they think I am sad or hurt, but really I am just mad!

I do the same thing.


flea - Sep 01, 2011 4:18:40 pm PDT #23705 of 30001
information libertarian

I read that autocorrect this morning, and I too reacted by thinking, "What the actual fuck."


Juliebird - Sep 01, 2011 4:21:26 pm PDT #23706 of 30001
I am the fly who dreams of the spider

When i get upset, I literally lose the power of speech. The act of opening my mouth to explain why I am upset leads to hyperventilation, embarrassing sobs, and choking. It's not terribly productive. Especially when I'm pmsing and what I'm upset over is really really stupid.


Connie Neil - Sep 01, 2011 4:23:02 pm PDT #23707 of 30001
brillig

There really has to be a way around the "cry when angry/frustrated" thing. Cause it completely undermines the "I am legitimately angry with you, I'm not being hysterical."


§ ita § - Sep 01, 2011 4:27:17 pm PDT #23708 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

What do you say when he (NSFW) walks past you on the beach?


Cass - Sep 01, 2011 4:29:20 pm PDT #23709 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Hello, Dr Manhatten, probably.


smonster - Sep 01, 2011 4:34:33 pm PDT #23710 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

There really has to be a way around the "cry when angry/frustrated" thing. Cause it completely undermines the "I am legitimately angry with you, I'm not being hysterical."

I tend towards, "Screw what society says, this is a legitimate response and just because water is leaking from my tear ducts does not mean I am not rational right now." Because the only way I've found *not* to cry is to bite my tongue, dig in my fingernails, and not talk. And if I don't talk? Well, how's that saying go? "Speak your mind, even if your voice shakes."