The whole earth may be sucked into Hell, and you want my help 'cause your girlfriend's a big ho?

Buffy ,'Chosen'


Natter 68: Bork Bork Bork  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Burrell - Jun 20, 2011 8:37:18 am PDT #13345 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Neither of my kids needed to be tested for pre-K, but the pre-K was attached to their daycare, so the teachers had basically watched my kids grow up. They did transition my boy early, though, so that he could transition with his best friend (who is almost 6 months older than he is).

I watched DH teach today. OMG, his mind and his daughter's mind work in such similar ways. I hadn't quite seen that before.

Aims, bossiness and directing the play is quite common with girls of that age, as Cash notes. I assume it's developmental. The 7 yo and the 4 yo are sisters? One thing I notice is that my two kids play well together when there's no one else there, but often spat when there is a third, esp if that third is a closer friend to one than the other. Could be that some of the stuff you're dealing with is the two sisters jockeying for position.


Jesse - Jun 20, 2011 8:39:05 am PDT #13346 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

There, there, Jess -- we all know he's Very Advanced.


Jessica - Jun 20, 2011 8:42:15 am PDT #13347 of 30001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

There, there, Jess -- we all know he's Very Advanced.

Woo hoo, I am validated!


Amy - Jun 20, 2011 8:45:25 am PDT #13348 of 30001
Because books.

There, there, Jess -- we all know he's Very Advanced.

I thought that went without saying.

Jake was the only kid of ours tested for kindergarten, and he put on a hell of a show, attention-getting and sassy and generally off the walls. They still admitted him, although I will say now that was probably a mistake.


Burrell - Jun 20, 2011 8:47:11 am PDT #13349 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

They may have decided that it's economically smarter to let her go and let the other girl stay. Which is poor child development, but sound finances. Bah.

Well, it's probably more complicated than that. They may be weighing a bunch of factors. When Franny was in preschool, she had a classmate with significant behavior issues. Not just hitting, scratching and biting, which are problems, but developmentally they aren't out of the ordinary. He peed on other students, peed on Franny's clothes, threw food at her regularly, etc. Parents complained (including me of course), teachers complained, but they tried to keep him enrolled. The school clearly was motivated by benign intentions, but in the end I think everyone felt a bit betrayed. Parents like me who felt the space wasn't entirely safe for their children, and the parents of the boy who was finally asked to leave.


le nubian - Jun 20, 2011 8:51:05 am PDT #13350 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

is there really and truly a ban on smilies? It's amazing you all haven't kicked me out yet.


Jessica - Jun 20, 2011 8:52:41 am PDT #13351 of 30001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

It's not formal or anything, but Buffistas are generally Down On Emoticons as a culture.


Cashmere - Jun 20, 2011 8:56:38 am PDT #13352 of 30001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Jessica, it's possible my experiences with Owen have warped my perspective.


Pix - Jun 20, 2011 8:56:54 am PDT #13353 of 30001
The status is NOT quo.

:-)

t /smartass


Cashmere - Jun 20, 2011 8:57:22 am PDT #13354 of 30001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Yeah, that tag doesn't close!