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Natter 67: Overriding Vetoes  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, nail polish, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Cass - Jan 23, 2011 7:29:13 pm PST #18516 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Yes.

You can both plan it and play it.

Unless you can't. Can you?


beekaytee - Jan 23, 2011 7:30:23 pm PST #18517 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

smonster, Frankie isn't a deep chested dog, so the chances of him getting bloat are less likely than him being constipated a bit.

Just in case, though, here is the wiki bloat page.

Look for signs of discomfort. But, more than anything, try not to stress about it. Your stress is his stress.

Is he behaving any differently?


meara - Jan 23, 2011 7:30:38 pm PST #18518 of 30001

while my old lane byrant's, with their wrong band size and cups suffice. They are at least located where my real estate is. But they slip around too much.

Can you get them tailored? Some places do that.

Character shoes are ...uh...they're mary janes with low heels that people wear on stage? Often have a leather sole?


Atropa - Jan 23, 2011 7:32:26 pm PST #18519 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

but I often find the Fluevog heel shapes too whimsical for my taste.

It's like you stopped typing recognizable words to me.

Sadly, I'm contemplating selling a pair of my Fluevog boots. They're adorable, but I think I've worn them three times since I got them last year: [link]

(I have the cream & black w/ red buttons, which are ... no longer available. Hmm. I think I will wear them to work tomorrow.)


Atropa - Jan 23, 2011 7:33:52 pm PST #18520 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

while my old lane byrant's, with their wrong band size and cups suffice. They are at least located where my real estate is. But they slip around too much.

Can you get them tailored? Some places do that.

If you were in Seattle, I would set up a sewing date with you and show you how to take in the bands.


Lee - Jan 23, 2011 7:37:17 pm PST #18521 of 30001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

You can both plan it and play it.

Hee. That's what I meant, I just left off the playing part, by mistake.

Sadly, I don't think I can do either though, because I will be out at the end of the week.


beekaytee - Jan 23, 2011 7:38:09 pm PST #18522 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

smonster, I was interested to read, on that wiki page, that studies show happy dogs are less susceptible to bloat.

Sadly, one of Bartleby's good friends, Fred, died of bloat 6 months ago. It is true that he was a more worried than happy dog.

I wonder what the correlation really is.


Liese S. - Jan 23, 2011 7:48:46 pm PST #18523 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

I never spend that much money on shoes unless they`re Docs. But Docs last forever so you have amortize the cost out, which means by now I`ve spent about ten bucks a year on my current pair. I thought I was tossing them when the laces wore through and the pull loop broke, but it turns out those are trivial things. New pair of laces, another three good years so far. I love them because they have the paint splotches from painting this house on them.
 
I was feeling all hormonally lonely and shit, probably from reading Anne of Green Gables books too many in a sitting, but I`ve got my head on the dog and the SO is chattering to someone on the phone in the other room, and here you all are.


Pix - Jan 23, 2011 7:58:12 pm PST #18524 of 30001
The status is NOT quo.

t tacklehugs Liese

No lonely for you, missy.

I have been Ms. Procrastinator Procrastipants this weekend and am staring forlornly at the very small pile of grading I did get accomplished and the much larger pile I did not. Sigh.

Bonny, I have a question for you. Kaylee is super well socialized and loves everyone she meets, but she definitely has that herding instinct to reach out and grab every new person; she doesn't intend to nip them, but she does grab their scarves, their skirts, their jeans...which often leads to accidental nipping. She has great bite inhibition, but she's a big pup (62 lbs of German Shepherd and counting--she's only 10.5 months old), and people who don't know her understandably get freaked out. Do you have any advice?


beekaytee - Jan 23, 2011 8:09:45 pm PST #18525 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

Pix, you can work with Kaylee's instinct by giving her an activity she can succeed at. Teach her the 'take' command by putting an object she is likely to grab in front of her. When she does so, mark and reward that behavior.

Then, teach her 'no take' or 'leave it.' That means asking her to wait before putting her mouth on anything. (including her food...this is a HUGELY important behavior to teach)

Bartleby didn't nip, but he DID put his nose on every living person on the street. It was awful. So, I taught him leave it, and I trained him to come back to me when I saw someone I thought he might nose. The good news is that he stopped touching everyone. The other news was that I had to teach him to 'say hi' (by running up and sitting in front of a person I was okay with petting him). He got so good at NOT touching people, we had to codify when that behavior was okay.

As with every behavior you don't want, the best strategy is to ignore it (thereby not stimulating it) and teaching a better, preferred behavior instead.