It will probably be at least a week.

The Girl does secular-cultural Judaism, with holidays and even occasional fasting but no G-d. I found it difficult to relate to at first, being of the practising (Christian) persuasion, but if nothing else there's been five years of lots of holidays and great theological debates. If children every came along*, it would get more complicated. But I think we could make the cross-cultural thing work.

*hah - like they'd appear as if by magic.

*hah - like they'd appear as if by magic.

You never know - you could get drunk one night and wake up the next morning with a turkey baster next to the bed....

I hope you realise that's the stuff of actual nightmares.

Semi-practicing pagan that I am, the only part of Charlie Brown Christmas that I make a point of watching is Linus' telling of the Christmas story.

The Snoopy Dance is worth a look-in, too.

My best friend in grade school's parents were an atheist mixed-marriage(Mom Jewish...I'm still not sure what background her dad was fleeing, but...) Anything "weird" they would do we thought was a "New York thing" Which it is...it's funny, her mom never wanted to talk about being Jewish, but she still sort of made Valerie Harper look like the mom in Ordinary People while saying stuff like "I don't tell people I'm from New York because they think New Yorkers are obnoxious." She's hilarious, but there are more than a few issues in that subscription.

My wife is methodist and I'm atheist. I really haven't given the kids my perspective on things though I don't tell them I believe things I don't if they ask (which they really haven't). They've been exposed to the methodist side through church, wife, and in-laws. Right now my son bounces around on religious issues, it's hard to pin down his thoughts on it. My daughter has gone straight-up atheist. Interestingly, she and I are the ones who've read the Bible straight through. (Well, I listened via an audiobook of the NIV).

Of course, the easy way to raise secular Jewish kids is to do it like DH and I were brought up - Reform, but really really half-assed about it. But ultimately I think that does a disservice both to Secular Humanism and Reform Judaism.

Of course, the easy way to raise secular Jewish kids is to do it like DH and I were brought up - Reform, but really really half-assed about it.

I think that's the default of a lot of Jewish kids of a certain age/generation. That's how Lewis was brought up (and he just turned 40), although ironically enough, he's the only one out of he, his brother, and his sister, who had a bar/bat mitzvah. He said he wanted to learn about it and do something that his older siblings hadn't done. Of course, having done so, he also feels perfectly comfortable saying, "I have no interest in practicing-- I gave it a go and it's not for me."

Jess, there's also the Workmen's Circle/Arbeter Ring, but that also looks like it's just in Manhattan. (I mostly know about them because they do Yiddish classes and klezmer and Yiddish theatre, but they've also got

The WC/AR offers a progressive, cultural Jewish education for children in our supplementary schools. Programs include Jewish history, arts, traditions and values, Yiddish and Hebrew language skills. Each child’s shule (school) experience culminates in a secular bar/bas mitsve celebration.

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(Tell me if you want me to stop. I've got some free time and started thinking and googling, but I can stop with the suggestions if you don't want any more.)