This is so nice. Having everyone together for my birthday. Of course, you could smash in all my toes with a hammer and it will still be the bestest Buffy Birthday Bash in a big long while.

Buffy ,'Potential'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Spidra Webster - Nov 29, 2010 7:28:28 am PST #9720 of 30000
I wish I could just go somewhere to get flensed but none of the whaling ships near me take Medicare.

I agree it wasn't the best move for him to call 911. I believe he tried calling an existing crisis hotline first and that it wasn't answering.


beekaytee - Nov 29, 2010 7:37:00 am PST #9721 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

For reference:

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-8255

Also, I've linked to the Metanoia site for years. It's more than a suicidal person would want to read in the moment, but it is chock full of resources for anyone who might be in a position to help someone else.


Spidra Webster - Nov 29, 2010 7:42:14 am PST #9722 of 30000
I wish I could just go somewhere to get flensed but none of the whaling ships near me take Medicare.

Thanks, bonny. The cops have left but now he's so angry and bitter about the whole thing that he doesn't want to call *any* hotline. Online folks are trying to reason with him, but I'm doubtful he'll be open to it. I don't think he's suicidal. I think he's very depressed. He's a caretaker for his gf, who is pretty severely disabled, so that's stressful. On top of it all he's had to declare bankruptcy. It just sucks.

ETA: It turns out the hotlines he spoke to told him to call 911. Jeez...


Barb - Nov 29, 2010 7:56:28 am PST #9723 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

Peeking out from crazy/busy time to hurl some ~ma beth's way for her interview and give a big squishy, groping hug to my Bitches.


sj - Nov 29, 2010 7:57:23 am PST #9724 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Barb! How is everything going with Stars?


DavidS - Nov 29, 2010 7:57:37 am PST #9725 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Yikes, Maybe don't call the police when you're depressed.


Spidra Webster - Nov 29, 2010 8:00:25 am PST #9726 of 30000
I wish I could just go somewhere to get flensed but none of the whaling ships near me take Medicare.

Yeah. The cops would not be who I would call for depression where the person isn't being a threat to others.


sj - Nov 29, 2010 8:07:32 am PST #9727 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Obviously, calling 911 is not the right thing to do, but how tragic that someone who is seeking help for themselves or someone else ends up with that kind of response.


Barb - Nov 29, 2010 8:14:29 am PST #9728 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

Barb! How is everything going with Stars?

Highs and lows-- mostly highs. So far, the reviews have been great (although I'm still hoping that freakin' Publisher's Weekly will review the thing), and I was struck absolutely dumb by a reader review on amazon. Normally, I don't even check there, because, you know, amazon, but someone alerted me to it, saying perhaps I should offer to bear this woman's children. *g*

On the down side, however, I went into one of my local BN stores and they didn't have any and when I asked, Little Dude told me they didn't appear to have any on order or any intention of ordering any even after I told him I was the author and local and blah, blah, blah, although he was happy enough to declare, "but we've got plenty of 'em sittin' in the warehouse!"

No, I didn't reach out and cheerfully strangle him-- aren't y'all proud of me?

The other local stores I've hit have distressingly few copies-- one or two at most. The exception is my local indie which had four out and will have many more for my signing next week. So I have to really hope that people come out for that (I feel like the freakin' Town Crier) and justify their decision to host me for a signing.

Ah, the glamorous life of a published author!


Spidra Webster - Nov 29, 2010 8:15:05 am PST #9729 of 30000
I wish I could just go somewhere to get flensed but none of the whaling ships near me take Medicare.

Yeah. I just heard from a second person that suicide hotlines have advised him to call 911. Pretty bad advice, if you ask me.