Funny thing about black and white. You mix it together and you get gray. And it doesn't matter how much white you try and put back in, you're never gonna get anything but gray.

Lilah ,'Destiny'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


beekaytee - Nov 18, 2010 5:44:06 pm PST #8945 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

Huh. Maybe she has some Rhodey ancestors.

I'm glad you are paying attention to her particular quirks. So many people see a specific expression and assume it means something it does not. Hackles, tail wagging, loud barks, etc. often don't mean what we think they do.

As for the dog she doesn't like. He doesn't have to be doing anything wrong for her to simply not like him.

I get that question a lot from people who want to make their dogs get along with all dogs. "Why doesn't Foofy like Max?" The only thing I can say, besides Max is unaltered and smells funny, is "Do YOU like everybody? I don't!"

I'm glad to hear that she likes dogs at all. That bodes well for her growing confidence.


smonster - Nov 18, 2010 5:47:06 pm PST #8946 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

OMG I just had a fabulously delicious dinner with Nora and Tom. One of their gimmicks was housemade cotton candy served with dessert, and it was reaalllly good. I think they should do some infused flavored ones. I had seared duck breast with a delectable turnip purée (really) and goat cheese cake drizzles with Dr. Brobson Lutz's "honey from the hood."

Am now back at the condo waiting for B to get in.


brenda m - Nov 18, 2010 5:58:08 pm PST #8947 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I'm glad to hear that she likes dogs at all. That bodes well for her growing confidence.

There's a particular dog, Amber, a rambunctious golden who was the first one she really cliked with. She's still more aggressive [confident] with him than any other dogs, but he really was the one who, I don't know, reminded her? that running and playing with dogs is awesome.

(Amber has a history himself - someone left him locked in a car for nearly a week and by the time he was rescued he'd eaten half the back seat.)

But since he broke her cherry, so to speak, she loves roughhousing with other dogs. She'll play for a few minutes and then take a little time off to the side and then go back in. It's lovely. Amber's owner has commented a number of times how different she is - she said the first few times she saw her she assumed she was really old because she was so cautious and self-contained. Now the dog park is like one of her safe spaces, where she plays and explores and actually approaches people.

[Apologies to non-dog folks, but I don't have a lot of people to talk about this stuff with. And it's a huge part of my life, to be honest, monitoring and watching and gauging her growth.]


Zenkitty - Nov 18, 2010 6:01:16 pm PST #8948 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I don't have dogs now, but I used to, and I like them. I'm always interested in the doggie talk!


beekaytee - Nov 18, 2010 6:03:52 pm PST #8949 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

(Amber has a history himself - someone left him locked in a car for nearly a week and by the time he was rescued he'd eaten half the back seat.)

Ohmygod. Thank goodness he found a good home.

she assumed she was really old because she was so cautious and self-contained.

Aw. Nice to hear she has risen above this. Due, in huge measure to the attention you pay to her development.


smonster - Nov 18, 2010 6:09:09 pm PST #8950 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I like the doggie talk, too. Unsurprisingly.


Dana - Nov 18, 2010 6:09:32 pm PST #8951 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Dogs are awesome. My parents' dog is so sweet, and she likes to sleep under the covers with you.


beekaytee - Nov 18, 2010 6:10:16 pm PST #8952 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

How IS that Frankie boy?


Barb - Nov 18, 2010 6:10:28 pm PST #8953 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

My three are currently snoring away nearby. It's sad, but I have trouble sleeping without that noise. They're like my own white noise machine.


Ginger - Nov 18, 2010 6:15:29 pm PST #8954 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Mr Peabody loves other dogs and I am told he has good "dog manners." It's people he has trouble with.