Why couldn't Giles have shackles like any self-respecting bachelor?

Xander ,'Beneath You'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Nora Deirdre - Aug 30, 2010 9:10:15 am PDT #640 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

The stitches are out, so it's looking much better.


smonster - Aug 30, 2010 9:33:19 am PDT #641 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Yeah, one reason I changed my ticket was to see KM. The eye is looking pretty good. Even got a little time with B - he enjoyed looking at pictures on my iPhone. That kid is a trip. We saw T, too. I've managed to see most of the people I wanted to already, though I'm planning on getting back to the L9 again to hang with Mack and Smitty some more.

OMG, the new EPA lead paint regs are a fucking bear. I've got, like, ten tabs open and am trying to track down someone at the EPA who can give me the Idiot's Guide version. I'm torn between appreciating the safety concerns and wondering how much is overkill. And it's not yet clear how material reuse is affected.


Shir - Aug 30, 2010 9:41:29 am PDT #642 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

I used to have phone fear. Working campaigns killed it though.

Not campaigns, but serving the IDF in a job which required a lot of talking to high ranks over the phone and in interviews killed mine. I mean, I was still terrified, but I found ways to get over that and still make the call. And for someone who, for a long time, didn't call her friends because she thought she'll disturb them with her thoughts, that means something.


Stephanie - Aug 30, 2010 9:43:20 am PDT #643 of 30000
Trust my rage

THe thing I hate about sympathy situations is that I always feel like I'm overly sympathetic/empathetic. Like the person is going to think I'm some sort of emotional stalker because, well, I don't know that them well, so why am I all upset for them?

Having said that, I always appreciate so much the support I get here or on LJ for even small stuff. That's what pushes me past feeling like I'm being too close to people.


Stephanie - Aug 30, 2010 9:45:14 am PDT #644 of 30000
Trust my rage

And because it needed its own post, can I bitch about my boss for just a moment?

I have two things that I either *need to do* or *really should do* to be professional and get stuff done on time. But he's been weird about me being outside the office since I got back from vacation, so I, of course, went to check with him. He's "thinking about it", which just pisses me the fuck off because it shows how little he trusts me/respects my judgment.


Shir - Aug 30, 2010 9:48:24 am PDT #645 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Huh? I don't understand. What does he want from you?


Stephanie - Aug 30, 2010 9:55:48 am PDT #646 of 30000
Trust my rage

Yeah, I don't get it either. Instead of me going to see the client in jail to find out a client's exact criminal history, he wants me to do twice the prep work to prepare one packet with convictions A, B, and C. and another without. Of course, he is totally overlooking the fact that there are more options than that. Like, it could be yes to A and C, but no to B, or whatever.

I get that it is his firm but I don't get whay he seems t have so little trust in me. Although I am looking for a new job, but I don't think he knows that.


Vortex - Aug 30, 2010 9:58:17 am PDT #647 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Okay, I just realized that I completely spaced and did not send a thank you note for my interview a few weeks ago. Should I send it now or just call to follow up?


Stephanie - Aug 30, 2010 10:00:58 am PDT #648 of 30000
Trust my rage

I think calling would be best, although I might want to mail it and thus avoid having to talk to anyone about it. Maybe they will think the mail was slow?


smonster - Aug 30, 2010 10:03:17 am PDT #649 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Found the Idiot's Guide and am reading. Oy.

Thank you notes. Right. Gonna need to do a few of those. Hmm... should maybe buy some notecards.