Anya: It's lovely! I wish it was mine! Oh like you weren't all thinking the same thing. Giles: I'm fairly certain I wasn't.

'The Killer In Me'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Calli - Oct 19, 2010 10:23:41 am PDT #6222 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Blegh. I'm feeling feverish and crampy today, and I'm planning to ditch a pilates class after work. Not quite what I had in mind for the day. Oh well. At least there's pie at the end of it.


Laga - Oct 19, 2010 10:39:42 am PDT #6223 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

You know what's fun? Trying to bring a clean dog home in your dirty car on a rainy day. We made it and aside from an obvious drip Daisy still looks beautiful.

At least I'm not locked out, feverish or crampy.

Much ~ma to sj and calli.


omnis_audis - Oct 19, 2010 10:43:30 am PDT #6224 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Yay Shir! And ssssh! If it's that easy, don't let them know. Plus, it won't always be that easy. Trust me on this.

omnis, it could be that your co-worker is just feeling a bit conflicted about the idea of getting involved with someone in general. For me, when there is interest shown by another party, it can throw me into a sort of panic mode. In short, her mixed signals may be more about her than about you.

Yes, this is what I was figuring it to be. So I was trying to give as much space as possible, and not be like this: [link] Which is how I can get sometimes. Obsessively. Which is bad. I will not name her George, and hug her to death.

Yes, this, or she may want to stay in contact and be friends with you but is getting the sense that you want to date and she doesn't.
See, that is the feeling I was getting after the wedding. Like, "huh, ok. We still hit it off, not getting the 'Heisman', but not getting the 'let's do lunch". So I was figuring, ok, another friend when I was hoping for more, but hey, she's cool. And then the text. That doesn't say anything one way or another. But makes me go "huh???" even more. I suspect it's the first thing. She's a bit of a wallflower at times. So I could see introvert hiding. Which is why I haven't obsessively called/texted/e-mailed her. But then I wonder if I didn't do ENOUGH contact. I'm so bad at this. arrgh.

ION- today, I TOTALLY forgot I was supposed to teach a class this morning. Thankfully the TA forgot to set up the equipment I was to teach on. But I was leaving the house when I should have arrived, to help set up gear. So fixated on the Musical, Opera, and 2 music events that are getting ready for, and totally forgot about the stupid class. And there is weather in SoCal this week, so it didn't allow me to play Speedy Gonzales to get to work. So I was 15 minutes late for class. Thankfully it's 2 hours, so not a total waste. And I filled their brains with info. So all is ok. But made for stressful morning. Now I need to breathe. Bllaarrrgggh.


Laga - Oct 19, 2010 10:49:53 am PDT #6225 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

There it goes again! (rain)


Shir - Oct 19, 2010 10:56:07 am PDT #6226 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

I want to see omnis teach.


Laga - Oct 19, 2010 11:06:34 am PDT #6227 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

Will you be teaching next fall, omnis?


NoiseDesign - Oct 19, 2010 11:15:08 am PDT #6228 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

Hey Sean, if you are around ping me.


omnis_audis - Oct 19, 2010 11:16:48 am PDT #6229 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

:: blush ::


omnis_audis - Oct 19, 2010 11:19:55 am PDT #6230 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Will you be teaching next fall, omnis?
Technically I don't "teach". Only faculty "teach" in the UC system. I "instruct". But yes, I seem to instruct nearly every time I have student crew, which is about 3 days a week in the afternoons. And then sporadically in the actual classroom. Last week I "instructed" how to use the mixer I didn't know, and got a lot of light bulb moments (one student, who used the mixer last year, said "I would have woke up at 6am to learn that!". Yes, I was all puffy chested and beamful at that moment). Today was starting to instruct about the system I used for 11 years at old SoCal job, so thankfully can teach at the drop of a hat... which is what I did! yikes.


Laga - Oct 19, 2010 11:21:14 am PDT #6231 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

Allright! Sounds like Shir will get her wish.