Spike? It's you. It's really you! My therapist thought I was holding on to false hope, but…I knew you'd come back. You're like…you're like Gandalf the White, resurrected from the pit of the Balrog, more beautiful than ever. Oh…he's alive Frodo. He's alive.

Andrew ,'Damage'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Tom Scola - Oct 18, 2010 2:33:06 pm PDT #6125 of 30000
Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.

I've had professors in college who would throw students out of the lecture hall for less, Hil.


Vortex - Oct 18, 2010 2:33:50 pm PDT #6126 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

You're the professor, Hil, you make the rules. I made a rule that there were no cell phones in class. If I saw a phone out, they lost class participation points.


beth b - Oct 18, 2010 2:38:31 pm PDT #6127 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Toss'em, Hil

put some clothes in the closet. washed the kitchen floor for the 3rd time. Put a bunch of stuff away


Hil R. - Oct 18, 2010 2:40:19 pm PDT #6128 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

If it were a lecture hall, I wouldn't mind so much. But it's a regular classroom, with about 40 students.

There aren't any class participation points for me to dock.

Today, I noticed one of them starting to put the earphone in and pressing some buttons on her iPod, and I'd already commented at least once, so I just gave her a Look, mostly because I was getting sick of dealing with it, and the boy next to her nudged her and told her that I didn't want her to be listening, and she stopped. That was a little weird, but at least it was something.


Volans - Oct 18, 2010 2:42:46 pm PDT #6129 of 30000
move out and draw fire

Mal's TKD school does the hand-up thing, and it's really effective.

I think back to teaching problem high-school kids, and I'm not sure it would work with them, but they sometimes surprised me. It's worth a shot, and it feels more democratic than authoritative.


erin_obscure - Oct 18, 2010 2:43:17 pm PDT #6130 of 30000
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

geeze hil, that's beyond distracting and disrespectful. i had plenty of profs with clauses in the syllabus about electronics. All cell phones/music players must be out of sight and silent. if the professor was made aware of such an item in any way (i.e ringing phone, clicking noises, etc) that item was immediately confiscated until the end of class. I thought that was a brilliant policy and we never had ringing phones in those classes. Tought to introduce mid-semester without seeming like you are targeting a specific student, but i'd want to yank those headphones off (and maybe an ear with them).


zuisa - Oct 18, 2010 2:43:27 pm PDT #6131 of 30000
call me jacki; zuisa is an internet nick from ancient times =)

Definitely, Hil.

I'm only a substitute teacher, so I'm never really teaching, but I totally see that kids listening to music during class is not cool.

I always let kids work together or in groups when I'm substituting, but if a kid wants to work alone I do let them have their iPod out if they keep the music to a volume where no one else can hear it. I do take away phones when they play music on the speakers, though.

I haven't decided yet if I should let them text or not. Part of me knows that in a real class they couldn't have them out, but the other half of me feels like a kid texting doesn't really bother anyone... I don't know.


ChiKat - Oct 18, 2010 2:43:39 pm PDT #6132 of 30000
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

I do the hands up thing with middle school and it works.


zuisa - Oct 18, 2010 2:44:57 pm PDT #6133 of 30000
call me jacki; zuisa is an internet nick from ancient times =)

What's the hands up thing?


Hil R. - Oct 18, 2010 2:47:15 pm PDT #6134 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Oh, I've given up on telling them not to text during class. It's just too hard for me to see from the front of the room what everybody's doing.