I think you're right that there will always be another Last One. I'd take a stand and make it stick.
You can find "the right one" by yourself. It doesn't mean you can't date suggestions by your relatives but it's pretty ridiculous to commute halfway across the country for a date.
Can you email doctor girl on the sly, saying something like you don't want to give ammo to the arranged marriage but that she looked interesting?
Can you email doctor girl on the sly, saying something like you don't want to give ammo to the arranged marriage but that she looked interesting?
I honestly did consider that. I do have her e-mail address.
That's what I was about to suggest! Email doctor girl on your own, just in case, but don't tell the parents, keep telling them to back off (because there will always be one last girl)
I'm intrigued by the Bio/English major but I do think if you appear to be giving in to the pressure from your parents they will take that as a good sign that the pressure is working and lay it on even harder. I'm in favor of the secret email option.
Plus, if you DO hit it off, the secret email is so romantic!
Secret email! Find out if she is pro/con the running comma thing that causes so much kerfuffle around here. Ooo and her stance on chives!
(and we wonder why I am still single)
And ask if cilantro tastes like soap.
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