Aren't they something. They're like butterflies, or little pieces of wrapping paper blowing around.

Kaylee ,'Shindig'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Daisy Jane - Oct 05, 2010 7:51:59 am PDT #5096 of 30000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

You may, like me, need this then smonster [link]


Connie Neil - Oct 05, 2010 8:09:53 am PDT #5097 of 30000
brillig

Fortunately I'm in a cubicle, so no one can see me fondling my own clothes.


meara - Oct 05, 2010 8:13:14 am PDT #5098 of 30000

I love bamboo/modal/cashmere...clothes that are fun to touch. (But I'm lazy, so I hate things that need to be dry cleaned)


sj - Oct 05, 2010 8:48:59 am PDT #5099 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I love bamboo and silk. I can't be anywhere near cashmere or any other kind of wool. I don't even like TCG to waer cashmere because then I can't snuggle up to him.


Burrell - Oct 05, 2010 9:01:40 am PDT #5100 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I think a conversation or note later on saying you're sorry you didn't get to see her and next time can we make some more specific plans, because it was hard feeling like you kept getting bumped down the list for more important stuff, would accomplish the same thing without escalating.

And your down time, especially right now, is completely legitimate. As I believe you've advised some of us in the past.

brenda is wise.


beth b - Oct 05, 2010 9:16:52 am PDT #5101 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

bonny, I 'll just add that just because thing did not go as expected it meant that you friend could have switched modes to come see you anyway -- from how busy she has been that would be presuming a lot.

and the rest, as you said can be dealt with later.

I am currently wondering if I should have showered and then run the dishwasher -- I was hoping it would have been done by now


Trudy Booth - Oct 05, 2010 9:22:15 am PDT #5102 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

If you didn't Trud, she's either seen something like before, or now has a funny little tidbit to share with friends at drinks this weekend.

That makes me feel a little better. I already feel like a creep for her making my bed at ALL. (Usually I do that myself when she's coming because I know she WILL -- do I usually do that when she's not? No. Not so much. I keep the house very tidy and I sort of love having a slob-hole that's MINE ALL MINE)

And it really is a wicked looking thing. [link]


Laga - Oct 05, 2010 9:32:19 am PDT #5103 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

I know y'all don't want to hear about my dream but you were all in it! So skip ahead if you still don't care.

I dreamt I was at a f2f in London because Jilli (now a major star with her own Saturday morning TV show) had sprung for tickets for anyone who could not afford the airfare. We had a live band at prom called The Corgi Queens. I guess that's it, it was just so vivid I woke up feeling like I'd actually been to London. Maybe it's all that Doctor Who I watch.


Volans - Oct 05, 2010 9:40:37 am PDT #5104 of 30000
move out and draw fire

You could go with something a little more discreet, Trudy: [link]


Stephanie - Oct 05, 2010 9:57:18 am PDT #5105 of 30000
Trust my rage

Several years ago I threw away all the sex toys because the movers were coming and I was so embarassed at the idea that they might see them. (But I coulnd't take them on the plane!)