Zoe: Next time we smuggle stock, let's make it something smaller. Wash: Yeah, we should start dealing in those black-market beagles.

'Safe'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


le nubian - Sep 12, 2011 12:47:43 pm PDT #29402 of 30000
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

Epic, your vet is an asshole. Sorry about your kitty.


Zenkitty - Sep 12, 2011 1:02:01 pm PDT #29403 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I bought a swimsuit. For the first time in 20 years. And I don't even hate the way it looks! Maybe tomorrow I will finally go to the nice friendly gym I joined. Surely I should be able to drag my reluctant corpus to the gym twice a week, right?


Hil R. - Sep 12, 2011 1:04:55 pm PDT #29404 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I've got a cold, and my sinuses and ear are all stuffed up. It hurts, and it's making me dizzy, and everything I hear sounds all weird. I do not like this.


hippocampus - Sep 12, 2011 1:43:15 pm PDT #29405 of 30000
not your mom's socks.

Epic, sending out the kitty~ma for Domino. And some extra ~ma for Domino's human.

Sparky I MISSED IT. Wah.


smonster - Sep 12, 2011 3:04:19 pm PDT #29406 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I don't have the Craig oost, but that's a lovely story. We like the nice human.s

Uggh. It may still be summer outside, but it's approaching glacial in my house. Now she won't even be in the kitchen the same time as me. I think she's waiting until I'm out of there to even cook dinner. I'm going to send an email tomorrow to see what's up, if I did anything in particular to piss her off, and see if she wants to look at moving out. Yes, it would be more assertive to just talk to her, but I don't have the spoons for an argument.

I've been living with roommates for seventeen years, never had an issue like this. WTF.

In better news, Frankie seems to be a lot better. Yay meds.

Is it too early to shower and go to bed?


hippocampus - Sep 12, 2011 3:07:46 pm PDT #29407 of 30000
not your mom's socks.

if I did anything in particular to piss her off,

smonster, you didn't. She might make something up, but this is totally on her. At this point, a normal person would have said 'hey, you know that time when I was sleeping and you decided to play Queen at top volume and dance around the kitchen in your team USA hardhat? That was kind of difficult for me." She's making you feed her crazy. DON'T FEED THE CRAZY. It's your house. She's subletting from you and this is not your failure. The email should read "I don't think this is working out - I'd like to open this space up again. Please be on your way crazy girl and stop making me second guess my fabulous self."

Signed, Been there. Fell for that. Fuck that.


Atropa - Sep 12, 2011 3:08:58 pm PDT #29408 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

She's making you feed her crazy. DON'T FEED THE CRAZY. It's your house. She's subletting from you and this is not your failure

Sox is so, so right. You didn't do anything, she is being unreasonable and a bad roommate.


smonster - Sep 12, 2011 3:16:26 pm PDT #29409 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Thanks, y'all. She is actually on the lease, though I was here first, so it's not really a sublet. But I can't deal with this for another three months! IDEK.


amyth - Sep 12, 2011 3:18:53 pm PDT #29410 of 30000
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

What Sox said!

Also:

you decided to play Queen at top volume and dance around the kitchen in your team USA hardhat?

I want to sign up for this dance party.


Nora Deirdre - Sep 12, 2011 3:28:13 pm PDT #29411 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Yes, it would be more assertive to just talk to her, but I don't have the spoons for an argument.

I doubt it will be an argument, since she doesn't want to communicate. I think emailing and texting is just feeding into her antisocial pity party. Go in the kitchen when she's in there and ask her point blank WTF? I think it's fair for you to say how what she's doing makes you feel.

I am not a confrontational person at all, even.