eta: your existence is a pleasure; ignore the stupid people.
Toddson is very, very right.
Your roommate is being unreasonable.
Angel: Is that what you think you are--a hero? Spike: Saved the world didn't I? Angel: Once. Talk to me after you've done it a couple more times.
'Destiny'
Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Atropa - Sep 08, 2011 8:52:45 am PDT #29178 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
Barb - Sep 08, 2011 8:54:04 am PDT #29179 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”
I'm actually having an anxiety attack about this and feel like I might cry.
Uh-uh... you should not be the one feeling anxious. There's a) being an introvert and understanding what's needed to keep the wolves at bay and b) there's unreasonable sense of entitlement and using the introversion as an excuse.
How many of us vote 'b'?
::raises hand::
lisah - Sep 08, 2011 8:59:30 am PDT #29180 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate
b) there's unreasonable sense of entitlement and using the introversion as an excuse.
Seriously! Being an introvert is no excuse for being a bitch. Sorry this is causing you anxiety rather than anger. She sounds like someone who hasn't been told "no" enough.
Also, wasn't this your place that she moved into?
Calli - Sep 08, 2011 9:00:06 am PDT #29181 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
Ima go with 'b,' Barb.
Zenkitty - Sep 08, 2011 9:05:10 am PDT #29182 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
smonster, your roommate needs a reality check, preferably drawn on her entitlement fund. She might be going through a tough time, but that doesn't make it okay for her to tell you you can't eat in your own kitchen. If the presence of another human bothers her, she needs to find a place where she can live alone.
Atropa - Sep 08, 2011 9:13:10 am PDT #29183 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
She might be going through a tough time, but that doesn't make it okay for her to tell you you can't eat in your own kitchen.
Ding ding ding!
I'm sorry about the anxiety attack, smonster. Here, let me distract you: I had a dream the other night that you, me, and Juliana were getting all fancied up to go out for the evening, and Cass was supposed to show up at any moment. It was a pretty nice dream.
Laura - Sep 08, 2011 9:16:44 am PDT #29184 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.
Seriously! Being an introvert is no excuse for being a bitch. Sorry this is causing you anxiety rather than anger. She sounds like someone who hasn't been told "no" enough.
This!
smonster - Sep 08, 2011 9:37:55 am PDT #29185 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
I had a dream the other night that you, me, and Juliana were getting all fancied up to go out for the evening, and Cass was supposed to show up at any moment. It was a pretty nice dream.
Aw.
I'm going to stop and buy a tension rod and curtains on the way home.
Strix - Sep 08, 2011 9:50:06 am PDT #29186 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
That sounds good, smonster (although IMHO, *SHE* has the problem, so she should be buying it).
If you were standing in her door, staring at her while you were chomping cereal, that's one thing.
But this? She needs to see a pysch and, I dunno, get the fuck over it.
Vortex - Sep 08, 2011 10:03:38 am PDT #29187 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
smonster, that is not reasonable. The kitchen is a common area, and she knew when she moved in that there was no door.
If you don't want to be confrontational about it, you can just put up a curtain and not say anything else. That's a a clear signal of compromise, and you just keep using your kitchen FOR THE PURPOSE WHICH IT WAS INTENDED.