Giles, if you would like to get by in American society, then you are going to have to follow our traditions. You're the patriarch. You have to host the festivities, or it's all meaningless.

Buffy ,'Sleeper'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


smonster - Aug 20, 2011 2:53:52 pm PDT #28114 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Dear (probably PMS-related) anxiety attack - Fuck you. No love, me.


§ ita § - Aug 20, 2011 3:16:49 pm PDT #28115 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

One from the thirties says that, even if you don't normally have servants, you simply must hire a few people when you're having a party, because it's just absurd for one woman to fill the three jobs of cook, server, and hostess

My mother would absolutely agree.


askye - Aug 20, 2011 3:31:15 pm PDT #28116 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

I acquired a Home Economics text from 1920. At least I think that's what it is, "School and Home Cooking". Besides instructions on how to cook there are also instructions on setting tables, creating meal plans, serving with and without servants, experiments and "at home" assignments. The experiments sound neat, like putting different kinds of fat in test tubes, heating it, and observing changes. Or putting milk in a test tube and then adding acid and observing the results and then adding acid and soda and then milk to a test tube, observing those results and drawing conclusions between the two tests and the practical application for cooking.


Calli - Aug 20, 2011 3:33:36 pm PDT #28117 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

The experiments sound neat, like putting different kinds of fat in test tubes, heating it, and observing changes. Or putting milk in a test tube and then adding acid and observing the results and then adding acid and soda and then milk to a test tube, observing those results and drawing conclusions between the two tests and the practical application for cooking.

That does sound nifty. I wish my 7th grade home ec class had done that.


askye - Aug 20, 2011 3:45:43 pm PDT #28118 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

It's also interesting to read about the dietary guidelines for children.

According to this book there was a difference of opinion about the use of meat in a child's diet. Some experts advise beef broth and more easily digestible meats for small children. Others say milk and eggs only are better and not to give children meat until they are 8 years old. Also no raw fruits until at least age five. Only cooked fruits and fruit juice, esp stewed prunes and fresh oj because they are good laxatives.


brenda m - Aug 20, 2011 3:58:12 pm PDT #28119 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Others say milk and eggs only are better and not to give children meat until they are 8 years old.

One of the items on the wish list for an animal shelter I volunteer for is meat-only baby food. I'm kind of boggled to know there is such a thing.


smonster - Aug 20, 2011 4:08:49 pm PDT #28120 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Ibuprofen taken, dishes done. Now a shower, and then a book or DVD. Need to decide if I'm going cathartic (FNL) or opposite mood (not sure what that would be). StW is having a cranky night, too, and being an introvert he prefers to spend it alone, so I'll have to make do with Frankie snuggles.


Nora Deirdre - Aug 20, 2011 4:12:51 pm PDT #28121 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Are you staying in or do you think you'll go to the courtyard? I wanted to make an appearance but my motivation is low.


smonster - Aug 20, 2011 4:17:54 pm PDT #28122 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Nora, staying in. Wanna come by and meet my roommate and peer at the new kitty?

eta or you could come by and we could wander over together.


Connie Neil - Aug 20, 2011 4:36:43 pm PDT #28123 of 30000
brillig

Also no raw fruits until at least age five.

However did our ancestors survive?