Illyria: Wesley's dead. I'm feeling grief for him. I can't seem to control it. I wish to do more violence. Spike: Well, wishes just happen to be horses today.

'Not Fade Away'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


erin_obscure - Aug 13, 2011 1:33:46 pm PDT #27626 of 30000
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Ugh, boarding kitties for urinary issues sucks. I used to sit outside Malachi's cage trying to coax him into peeding for the nice lab techs but there is a strong obstinancy there.

I gave blood this morning before work and am already regretting doing a mid-week donation. Sipping emergen-C and taking vitabiotic hoping to ward off another round of interminable cold/crud but throat already starting to hurt and 4 hrs later my skin still has an odd greenish tinge. Should be eating but nauseous still. Bleargh, i think i rushed out of the canteen to get to work on time which was not the best idea i've ever had.

Hrm, is there any reason to be worried about a lump on my shin? It's been there a couple months....at first i thought it was an undeveloped bruise as it's right at a level with my bed, an area where i constantly bang my shins. Can lots of bruises leave a permanent lump? It doesn't hurt or move.


Hil R. - Aug 13, 2011 1:35:58 pm PDT #27627 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Days like this, I start wanting to get a dog. Something cuddly. I don't really know anything about taking care of dogs, though. The only pet I've ever had was hermit crabs when I was in second grade.


Cass - Aug 13, 2011 1:38:10 pm PDT #27628 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I'll bet you do, Nora. It sucks to be home and them not be.

Thanks for the suggestions and info! I sent everything to P and will send any other advice onto her later. I know she really misses having a dog.


Ginger - Aug 13, 2011 1:38:29 pm PDT #27629 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I hope Taz can come home Monday.

I needed the ~ma, because there was no one there who knew anything about the A/V system and trying to figure out how the computer talked to the projector became a massive clusterfuck, including one of those people who stab ineffectually with the cursor and say they could figure it out if the computer was a Mac. This is not a slam at Mac users; I suspect this breed says the opposite when faced with a Mac. It's a good thing I didn't say what I was thinking, since he turned out to be the minister. This didn't occur to me because he looked about 15.

I don't think familiarity with either operating system would tell you that the slide show had to be imported into a program called something like EasySermon 2.0. Anyway, we finally got it to run, and people seemed to like it.

This was for my cousin's wife's funeral. She was diagnosed with stomach cancer almost exactly a year ago, the beginning of a Job-like year that included her husband's death from lung cancer and her son-in-law's from a heart attack. I recall trying to explain this convoluted story before and how her granddaughter dealt with all the funerals, nursing homes, finances and everything else.

Humans are strange. This woman was apparently as wonderful to others as she was awful to her family. The granddaughter's husband gave an astonishingly tactful eulogy in which he talked about the deceased solely in terms of how her grandchildren "said" she was a wonderful grandmother, neatly sidestepping the fact that he has been known to describe her as an evil bitch.

The cancer had spread widely and she had just broken her hip, so death was a friend.


Cass - Aug 13, 2011 1:41:30 pm PDT #27630 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

and am already regretting doing a mid-week donation.

Oh, yikes. Blood donation wrecks me.

Birthday party for a five-year-old with tons of kids of various ages and their parents. I washed my hands a lot, used sanitizing goo and am still entirely certain I will get sick. Eh, a kid who apparently never wants to be held by others reached out to be held and stuff like that is awesome. Because I can return them. Played with kids, talked with parents, snuck into the bouncy castle and went down the slide... Good day.


Cass - Aug 13, 2011 1:44:13 pm PDT #27631 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

so death was a friend.

It sounds awful. I am glad she didn't have to suffer further.

And, wow, tactful eulogy.


Zenkitty - Aug 13, 2011 2:30:01 pm PDT #27632 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Hrm, is there any reason to be worried about a lump on my shin? It's been there a couple months....at first i thought it was an undeveloped bruise as it's right at a level with my bed, an area where i constantly bang my shins. Can lots of bruises leave a permanent lump? It doesn't hurt or move.

That sounds like the hard lump I once got under my skin from a terrific deep bruise - turns out a hematoma can calcify. Maybe repeated bruising in the same spot can produce the same thing? It's normal, anyway, and eventually it went away. I'm not saying don't go see a doctor, though.


erin_obscure - Aug 13, 2011 4:09:40 pm PDT #27633 of 30000
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

If it's still there when i go back for new Rx's i'll have her check it out. That sounds extremely likely, given the location and how many nasty bruises i've had there.


smonster - Aug 13, 2011 4:29:49 pm PDT #27634 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Can lots of bruises leave a permanent lump? It doesn't hurt or move.

Yes. I found that out after my first season playing indoor soccer. I would just keep an eye on it. It should eventually go away, but I think mine took several months.

Wow, Ginger. Just... wow.

Nora, continued ~ma for Taz.

We went tubing today. Met some lovely peeps, all younger but either RPCVs and/or Public health people, so we got along. The two hour trip lasted four, mostly due to some people who decided to make many stops. We waited for them for an hour at one point. But all in all, fun, and we got another couple's contact info. Plus, I wasn't the only RPCV from Moldova!!

Now we're back at StW's where there will be showers and aloe and ibuprofen for the sunburns and then sushi while watching Justified.


Nora Deirdre - Aug 13, 2011 4:51:29 pm PDT #27635 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Sounds like fun!

Tom cooked an awesome shrimp dish with fresh lima beans (both procured from the farmer's market this morning) along with the peppers and tomatoes gotten in the farm box. It was awesome.

Then we decided to stroll up to Magazine Street and had a lovely (albeit sweaty) time. Stopped at Sucre for macaroons and a fancy-pants pastry cake thing. To go,'cause still stuffed from Tom's home cookin'.

Probably another early night tonight- but smonster, we must celebrate soon!