I want to torture you. I used to love it, and it's been a long time. I mean, the last time I tortured someone, they didn't even have chainsaws.

Angel ,'Chosen'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


beekaytee - Jul 06, 2011 11:46:57 am PDT #24784 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

Saturday, 8:30pm - offer sex

Saturday, 8:45pm - begin foreplay

Yeah. I get a lot of 'It's not spontaneous!' and 'If it's fake it's not 'real.'

The problem with waiting for spontaneous to show up or the right time to present itself or the burning flame of passion to ignite on its own, is that...a few years down the road, without any actual maintenance, the relationship either fizzles and dies, or implodes and dies.

I like my plan better!


Vortex - Jul 06, 2011 11:51:57 am PDT #24785 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Saturday, 8:30pm - offer sex

Saturday, 8:45 31pm - begin foreplay

Of course, I am rather impatient.


Vortex - Jul 06, 2011 11:54:00 am PDT #24786 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Write My Fire, a response to the idea of not teaching cursive in school anymore.


Strix - Jul 06, 2011 12:44:44 pm PDT #24787 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

sj, I am glad that the service was healing.

Heh, D and I need to do that. We get stuck in a rut of this is my dance space, this is your dance space, esp. since we are both so plugged in -- I'll be up here browsing or watching Netflix on the laptop, and he'll be doing the same thing downstairs.

DVR is great, but I am so glad when Burn Notice and Leverage come back on in new eps, because we both watch those, and we like out instant gratification.

Weeknight sex is pretty sporadic, since he goes to sleep at 9:30 and I don't. But I'm pretty much a Vortex or Tep, and just announce "WOO! Let's have some SEX! RAWR!" But I need to do it more often. (He's still shier than I am, bless him...)


Typo Boy - Jul 06, 2011 1:02:04 pm PDT #24788 of 30000
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Vortex, that link takes me to a graphic of a handwritten page that I can't read between my bad eyes and poor quality computer. Is there a plain text copy of the comment on not teaching cursive? (Umm to be clear: not being a smartass. I genuinely can't read it, and genuinely am curious as to what it says.)


Cass - Jul 06, 2011 2:03:38 pm PDT #24789 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Write My Fire, a response to the idea of not teaching cursive in school anymore.

Ha! I texted notes to add to my calendar this morning.

But I also signed for a package and I KNOW that the Fed Ex guy typed in my last name because that is legit scrawl with no letters but he also got the first initial wrong. Which I thought was readable when I signed.

So I am going to use the handwriting homework book that I bought a year or so ago. Because I don't like how awful my longhand is now and want to change it.


askye - Jul 06, 2011 2:28:50 pm PDT #24790 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

My job search is really frustrating when I run across a position I would be great for

a Receptionist with great people skills on behalf of our client, a well-established insurance agency located in Burlington.

This entry-level position is a temp to hire opportunity in a professional office.

Except one thing - the #1 Requirement:

A Bachelor's degree is Business or a related field

Which I don't have the rest I pretty much do have: 1-2 years experience, great references, the ability to take direction, good verbal and written communication skills.

But it is listed by a temp agency I haven't contacted so that's what I'm going to do tomorrow.

My great written and verbal skills notice there's a freaking typo in the ad.


javachik - Jul 06, 2011 2:33:58 pm PDT #24791 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

askye, don't let the lack of a degree scare you away. So many businesses put that in as a requirement from just a template job description. It's also used as a way to weed out less ambitious people (less ambitious in that they don't wish to work hard and overcome biases againt non-degreed people). Apply and write a terrific cover letter (and then wow them in the interview!).


brenda m - Jul 06, 2011 2:34:12 pm PDT #24792 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

A Bachelor's degree is Business or a related field

So ridiculous. You block fully qualified people out of the role while probably ensuring that whoever you do get feels overqualified and never stays for long.

Since it's through an agency there's a chance you can talk them around. Best of luck.


Dana - Jul 06, 2011 2:35:59 pm PDT #24793 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I agree, askye. It might be irritating to HR people, but I would advise you not to let a requirement like that keep you from applying. Same thing with a skill -- skills can be learned, and a person who can learn is valuable to an employer.