Hmm, maybe you can wear the gown, and he can wear the negligee later?
I don't fancy spending the next month trying to get librarian out of the carpet.
Spike ,'Chosen'
Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?
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Vortex - Jun 28, 2011 6:03:57 pm PDT #24280 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
Trudy Booth - Jun 28, 2011 6:05:58 pm PDT #24281 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
I would so do this if I weren't so fucking unreliable when it comes to keeping a schedule.
[link] Simply Islam is THERE for you!
I understand you can buy them with an attached compass as well. I think the combo even exists in wrist-watch form.
Steph L. - Jun 28, 2011 6:08:08 pm PDT #24282 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
Hmm, maybe you can wear the gown, and he can wear the negligee later?
That's our daily life, modified. I wear dresses to work and t-shirts to bed; he wears work shirts and steel-toe boots to work and fancy nighties to bed. (I actually like this vacation because he's wearing my Spider-Man pajama bottoms to bed, and he just looks so hot in pj bottoms and no shirt.
juliana - Jun 28, 2011 6:14:44 pm PDT #24283 of 30000
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
"Do you want it to taste good, or do you want it strong?"
A member of my tribe.
smonster - Jun 28, 2011 6:15:52 pm PDT #24284 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
After drinking it, my throat was still sore, but I did not care.
Ahahaha. I love a good hot toddy, but it's a bit warm for that.
smonster - Jun 28, 2011 6:16:39 pm PDT #24285 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
JULIANA!!! ::tacklehugs::
Steph L. - Jun 28, 2011 6:17:53 pm PDT #24286 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
"Do you want it to taste good, or do you want it strong?"
A member of my tribe.
I tipped him very well.
Cashmere - Jun 28, 2011 6:19:22 pm PDT #24287 of 30000
Now tagless for your comfort.
But sentences directed to me about "Your friend Obama, the Muslim," kind of make me have rage blackouts.
I think I just had a rage black-out right now!
Good luck, Teppy. Calming thoughts and less-stress~ma. I'm glad for my immediate, mostly moderate family. Besides the wackaloons in the extended, most of mine are pragmatic and reasonable when it comes to politics. Or they know well enough to leave me to my own opinions.
juliana - Jun 28, 2011 6:23:21 pm PDT #24288 of 30000
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
snorgles smonster
Tep, I'm sorry about Tim's relatives not behaving very well.
Strix - Jun 28, 2011 6:25:59 pm PDT #24289 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
Tep, I don't think it makes you a bad genderqueer ally and GF to want to wear the pretty, pretty dress, esp. if Tim is OK with you wearing it...in your hypothetical wedding, if it should so happen, if you both desire.
I think it's perfectly understandable (I'm not saying natural because wedding rituals are a societal construct, and there's nothing inherent about a woman wearing a dress or a man wearing pants).
Any type of marriage or joining ceremony is pretty much practice -- or should be, IMHO -- an exercise for married life, which is all about compromise and a shifting of give and take.
Oh, I'm stating this badly, and I'm pretty sure in spite of my protestations, I'm betraying a heteronormatove prejudice, even though I'm trying not to. It's hard! I have total sympathy for you.
Honestly, I've known you for a decade, and selfishly, I want you to have the pretty, pretty dress! And if you were genderqueer and a born-male, I would then want you to have the pretty dress, too.
So...there.
Um.