Um, well, we listened to aggressively cheerful music sung by people chosen for their ability to dance. Then we ate cookie dough, and talked about boys.

Giles ,'Get It Done'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Stephanie - Jun 23, 2011 12:06:54 pm PDT #23951 of 30000
Trust my rage

You know, I was just talking to my therapist the other day about my limited internal definition of "normal" (or maybe "okay for me" is a better term) and I was telling her about all the "friends" (okay, buffistas), who have opened my eyes to all these different ways to live and be happy.

Honestly, I think that is the board's greatest gift to me - the realization that there are many ways to be "okay".


askye - Jun 23, 2011 12:07:13 pm PDT #23952 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

I definitely wouldn't have.


JZ - Jun 23, 2011 12:23:06 pm PDT #23953 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

I know for darn certain I wouldn't have.

Massive gleeful riotous happy birthday to you, Tep! The forties welcome you with great pleasure. I've lived here for almost three years now, and it's a much niftier neighborhood than you would have thought in your twenties. A tiny bit shabbier and more run-down than might be absolutely optimal, but with its own funky charm.


smonster - Jun 23, 2011 12:25:11 pm PDT #23954 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Yeah, I agree that PDF is a good idea. It's just been tricky b/c I use Pages, not Word, and so Erin and I have been bouncing things back and forth, but I'm never quite sure if what she's sending is what I'm seeing.

Anyway. Thanks for the help. I'm going to eat some food before I lose my shit. Oh, low blood sugar-induced rage blackouts, you suck.


Scrappy - Jun 23, 2011 12:29:09 pm PDT #23955 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

I am totally crushing on jz and her mad word skillz right now.


JZ - Jun 23, 2011 12:32:28 pm PDT #23956 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Oh, pshaw! Or, alternately, takes one to know one.


sj - Jun 23, 2011 12:36:41 pm PDT #23957 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I don't know what I would be like without Buffistas, and I don't want to know. I feel like I learn something new here every day.


Strix - Jun 23, 2011 12:37:59 pm PDT #23958 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Hee, JZ, now I want to turn 40 instead 39 this year!

Oh, low blood sugar-induced rage blackouts, you suck.

I will stand in this corner with you, although I wasn't ragey so much a deeply, deeply stupid.

Nonian, that so much. I attended a Latin convention when I was 16, and making friends with deeply geeky teenagers so much helped me to break out of my shell and become the snarky bitca you all know and....love(!) today.

But the Buffistas helped me become an adult. Still deeply geeky, still dealing with issues...but DEALING with issues and figuring out what makes me happy and what doesn't, and how to add the former while subtracting as much as the latter as is feasible.

Buffistas quite literally helped me stay alive.

(Also, I can't use the word "literally" without doing an automatic "TepCheck" -- is it really literal?!)

Grocery store run made and oh, sweet, sweet Tylenol. I love SO much.


Pix - Jun 23, 2011 12:40:17 pm PDT #23959 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.

Not only would I not have made the changes I did without the support of Buffistas, I wouldn't be married to one. Who, ftr, rocks my world.


Strix - Jun 23, 2011 12:46:11 pm PDT #23960 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

You, JZ, Andi and Daniel win the Buffista Lifetime Achievements awards, but you have some pretty stiff competition!

Holy shit -- Matilda wouldn't exist if you and Hec hadn't both randomly started shooting words on a screen 10 years ago. Crazy! I love life -- it's so NEAT and unexpected!

Am I missing other Buffista couples? Imagine what our look back in 5, 10, 15 years will be like.