Oh, wow. This place looks great. Oh, I feel like a witch in a magic shop.

Willow ,'Help'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Dana - Jun 08, 2011 6:01:51 pm PDT #22922 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Honey, your grandmother died. Why wouldn't you be sad?


smonster - Jun 08, 2011 6:02:23 pm PDT #22923 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

There are no "shoulds" or "shouldn'ts" when it comes to grief. I look forward to being able to give you a hug in person, Nora.

Barb, phooey and yuck. I hope the machines do the trick. Better to get on it right away than let it mold.

Said goodbye to my family tonight. Parents were/are sad. I'm too stressed to be sad or excited or anything. Can I get some no-flake/couch moving ~ma? Two "big, strong dudes" are coming to get that sofabed in about half an hour. Good lord, I will do a dance when it's gone. It's a great couch, but disposing of it has been a nightmare.

Tired. Tired. There is only packing. Or possibly Zuul.


DavidS - Jun 08, 2011 6:04:37 pm PDT #22924 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Tired. Tired. There is only packing. Or possibly Zuul.

Life changes are tough. But pretty soon you'll wake up in New Orleans and you'll say, "I live here!" and that's pretty fucking sweet.


Ginger - Jun 08, 2011 6:05:11 pm PDT #22925 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

If only Zuul packed.


Nora Deirdre - Jun 08, 2011 6:07:02 pm PDT #22926 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I'm too stressed to be sad or excited or anything.

Oh, I remember that from a year ago!

Thanks y'all- sort of saw how hard I was being on myself when I wrote it out. Getting it out of my head is important, diffuses the inner brain bully.


Nora Deirdre - Jun 08, 2011 6:07:33 pm PDT #22927 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

But pretty soon you'll wake up in New Orleans and you'll say, "I live here!" and that's pretty fucking sweet.

YES I REMEMBER THIS TOO.


Strix - Jun 08, 2011 6:18:48 pm PDT #22928 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

I mean, smonster, just keep thinking NOLA ROAD TRIP! instead of HUGE MOVE.

And you don't have to leave. You are going to get a job working with stuff you love, and you are going to have so much fun living there.


smonster - Jun 08, 2011 6:20:36 pm PDT #22929 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

But pretty soon you'll wake up in New Orleans and you'll say, "I live here!" and that's pretty fucking sweet.

This is true. And as hard as this has all been, I can't even imagine how much harder it would have been without the wonderful help of all my friends and family.


beth b - Jun 08, 2011 6:24:26 pm PDT #22930 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

{{Nora}}

MFN - peace to you and yours


Atropa - Jun 08, 2011 6:28:11 pm PDT #22931 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

There are no "shoulds" or "shouldn'ts" when it comes to grief.

This needed repeating, because it is so, SO true.