I hope you don't think that I just come over for the spells and everything. I mean, I really like just talking and hanging out with you and stuff.

Willow ,'First Date'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Scrappy - May 31, 2011 9:16:29 am PDT #22396 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

I have my dad's high school graduation ring. Which looks a lot like this: [link] I had it re-sized and I wear it every day. My mom keeps giving us stuff each time she sees us ("I brought that green glass bowl you always liked in my suitcase"), despite all of us telling her to keep and enjoy it, so there may be nothing left when she finally dies.


Kate P. - May 31, 2011 9:29:49 am PDT #22397 of 30000
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

The only thing that comes to mind that I would really want from my grandparents would be old photos, and those can be digitized so that everyone can get a copy. I really want to do that with a photo of M's grandmother and grandfather that sits on her piano. They look so incredibly glamorous and beautiful and young and happy and in love. It's such a great photo, and I want to make sure that everyone in the family can have a copy.


lisah - May 31, 2011 9:41:42 am PDT #22398 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

I got my grandmother's battered old teapot with the lid that doesn't quite close that had been her mother's. Also some of her hugemungous collection of sheet music a few pieces of which I am FINALLY getting framed. She died in 2004. Thanks, Groupon! (Although it is still crazy expensive. Why so spendy professional framining?!)


Toddson - May 31, 2011 9:48:27 am PDT #22399 of 30000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

In my family, traditionally household goods - silver, china, etc. - were passed to oldest daughters. Which means I'm in line to get the family silver; I already have my grandmother's good china, which is pretty but I don't think I've ever used it. My mother's good glassware, however, I truly lust after - Heisey New Era - 1930s moderne.


meara - May 31, 2011 9:55:07 am PDT #22400 of 30000

The only thing that comes to mind that I would really want from my grandparents would be old photos, and those can be digitized so that everyone can get a copy.

This. Though also I would like to know who the heck the people ARE...which is something I need to deal with and do BEFORE anyone else dies. Yeesh. (My dad's parents each had like, six siblings, plus grandma's parents died so they were taken in by this other family, and then one of them married some other relative, so they're both sorta and actually related...)

There's probably one or two pieces of furniture that I really like, but I'm not sure where they would fit in my house or if it would be worth trying to transport from Indiana. The few nice pieces of jewelry my mom has aren't that nice, and aren't at ALL my style, so...yeah.

And then there's the stamps. We are all perpetually worried that my dad (who is somewhat of a hoarder anyway, AND a stamp collector) will die and we won't know what's worth something, and what to toss, and if it's all worth 50 cents a stamp if it's even worth having someone look at them...we keep telling him he needs to do something about them....but he keeps buying as many on ebay as he sells!


Kathy A - May 31, 2011 9:59:55 am PDT #22401 of 30000
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil

Though also I would like to know who the heck the people ARE

My paternal grandmother and her sister went through their family pictures and id'd as many as they could a few years before they passed away, so when Dad, my now ex-SIL, and I went through the box, we were able to figure out how I was related to these B&W faces. I have some very cool photos that will look great in antique frames on a shelf--a boy in 1910s-era knickers, a solemn-looking baby girl, and my great-grandma Alida and her siblings, all of whom look a lot like me!


P.M. Marc - May 31, 2011 10:15:07 am PDT #22402 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I just got my great-grandmother's candlesticks last night. Which involved a conversation where the rest of my family was like, "Why would you think we would want them? Dude. They fugly."

Hmph, I say.


Burrell - May 31, 2011 10:53:10 am PDT #22403 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

My mom keeps giving us stuff each time she sees us ("I brought that green glass bowl you always liked in my suitcase")

Good. Let her give things away now, while she can enjoy the giving. That's my take on it anyway.


Steph L. - May 31, 2011 11:00:17 am PDT #22404 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I really want a snack. I *had* wanted a banana.

I am editing an article on drug treatment for premature ejaculation. I think I will skip the banana and see if there are more M&Ms in the freezer.


§ ita § - May 31, 2011 11:01:25 am PDT #22405 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

My mother keeps noting that when she spends money on us it's stuff we won't inherit, plus she grouses at us about the stuff we won't take from her now.

She raised two kids who don't like gold, sadly. And she likes it a lot.