Thanks for the condolences and congratulations, everyone.
It is sad about my uncle but my mother wasn't close to her brothers when I was growing up so I just barely remember them from my childhood. It wasn't until I was in my 20's that the youngest brother, the one who introduced my parents to each other, staged a reunion.
It was a strange tableau looking at my mother and her 4 brothers interact after all that time. Being of Irish descent it involved a lot of drink and getting "things off their chests".
I realized that we had really missed out on the simple joys of an extended family. All of the Grandparents were gone by the time I was 7. And we almost never saw any of my father's family either.
So, when Uncles Bill and Jim showed up for both of my parents funerals it was a chance to reconnect. Uncle Jim, the one still living has made a real effort to stay in touch and offer support to us orphans.
So, I'm sad my uncle is dead, but I didn't know him that well and know none of my cousins. I'm mostly sad for Uncle Jim, who is now the last of my parents generation.
As for little Amelia Jayne, her parents are indeed with us in spirit. They introduced my brother to the joys of the Whedon-verse. He's never seen Buffy or Angel or Dollhouse but he is a big Firefly and Dr. Horrible fan.
Katy (the new mom) and her husband were also big BSG and Eureka fans. I actually suggested a name for the baby when we were having the contest to see who could guess the closest birth date, time and name. The one I suggested was Kaley Zoe Six Athena. Close!