Angel: Yeah, I never told anyone about this, but I-I liked your poems. Spike: You like Barry Manilow.

'Hell Bound'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


beekaytee - Apr 09, 2011 6:06:16 pm PDT #19454 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

This brings up a question I have about tv behavior.

I don't own one. I see WAY too much tv on the computer...and I love it all.

However, I've never been one to have a tv on when people are around...I don't even like playing music during a dinner party when I expect people to be conversing.

The last several doggy lama appointments I've had, the television was on when I arrived and was left on as we worked. Now, these people are paying me a hefty sum to share a ton of information with them about problems that are vexing them.

It doesn't make sense to me that I have to ask them to turn it off. Most times, I don't say anything until it becomes obvious that they aren't paying attention. But, even in those cases, it is most likely that only the sound will be turned down and the picture left on.

My former bff had a HUGE television that was on every waking moment of the day. Is this a common practice?

I wonder because of the prevalence of tvs in restaurants and bars, etc. Is it that people are just used to having it on all the time?


beekaytee - Apr 09, 2011 6:10:34 pm PDT #19455 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

Oh Jilli, that is wonderful news. Yay for recuperated kittyboy.

By the way, I was talking with a dog park friend this evening about coloring books. Now SHE wants a vampire edition.

It's becoming a movement!


Stephanie - Apr 09, 2011 6:15:11 pm PDT #19456 of 30000
Trust my rage

Ellie didn't watch TV until she was older than two. Frisco could sing the wonderpets theme song at 15 months and I videotaped it because I thought it was cute.


Cass - Apr 09, 2011 6:16:10 pm PDT #19457 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

a HUGE television that was on every waking moment of the day. Is this a common practice?

I often having something on. TV or music. Otherwise, when working, my brain wanders off. But I don't have it on OMG, I WATCH THIS tv. It's documentaries or racing that I am ambivalent about the outcome.

Generally not when people are over unless it is a shared interest. Or when Jilli is here for a week and is forced to be around for watch racing.

I do play music when people are here. But I also try to either play something they'll like or the best compromise available.

Block the television because the baby isn't "allowed" to watch tv.

Isn't allowed to watch or isn't allowed to know that tv exists. The hell, people?


billytea - Apr 09, 2011 6:16:51 pm PDT #19458 of 30000
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

This brings up a question I have about tv behavior.

I'm not thrilled about people leaving the TV on when I visit, but that's because I get too easily distracted.

I'll often have the TV on, but I really use it as a radio station with pictures. (Envy me! Our cable music channels still play actual music!)


Connie Neil - Apr 09, 2011 6:20:56 pm PDT #19459 of 30000
brillig

When I'm home alone I'll often have the TV on in the other room for the sound of voices in conversation, to counter the "OMG! Last person alive in the world!" feeling. But right now it's not on. I'm, obviously, on the other Magic Box, with my music on in the background and Hubby behind me fiddling with his Warhammer army. A convivial Saturday night at Chez Neil.


smonster - Apr 09, 2011 6:26:02 pm PDT #19460 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

KBD had the tv on from sunup to sundown and it drove. me. BONKERS. He would turn it off if I asked during meals but had to have music on instead. I will pause the tv if my roommate comes in to talk to me partly because it's rude, partly because I can't focus with the distraction, and partly because I watch tv to watch tv, most of the time. I don't just have it on in the background. I do frequently have music or NPR on, it helps motivate me and get me in a productive mood.


beekaytee - Apr 09, 2011 6:26:59 pm PDT #19461 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

I get too easily distracted.

This is me too.

Truthfully, my 'magic box' is on way too much and/or audiobooks.

It's just when other folks are around that it wouldn't even occur to me to have it on.

Now, if you come over and have an interest in Primeval or summat, I'll make up the guest bed in preparation for a marathon...but not otherwise.


smonster - Apr 09, 2011 6:29:05 pm PDT #19462 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Bourbon and ginger: date was a pleasant evening of geekiness, no sparks for either of us. I may have talked too much. Ran into two former coworkers.

Haven't gotten confirmation from my potential date for tomorrow, which is mildly annoying. We've been struggling to find a time to get together.


DavidS - Apr 09, 2011 7:46:22 pm PDT #19463 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Springing it on them at the front door is rude no matter how reasonable the request.

I concur.